Recently, my LTR boyfriend and I went to spend time with his married friends.

Context: we are different in a glance. Picture a metal head with a pink goth couple and a blue color with a librarian. Even still, our friends are good people with big hearts and we love them.

Field Report: I saw first hand how being a lady can change the room you're in. For me, that means being a lady as Christ intends.

I do (my best) not to curse.

I never use the Lord's name in vain.

This was a room where "Oh my G.." and a curse word was thrown in every other sentence. I mean, an intense game night can do that! However, by the end of the night people were screaming "Oh my gosh!" and "What the heck!" The man of our couple friend even cursed then said "excuse my language, I mean darn."

Now, I never asked or expressed the want for the language to change. It happened naturally. A lady in any room should not lower herself to fit in, but maintain her decorum and others will follow suit.

This is more femininity/etiquette focused than RPW, but I thought the influence would be appreciated here.