Advice on finding a therapist?

Dehydrated_Jellyfish · 2023-06-13T02:42:00+00:00

I had the same thought as you. I worked with a super feminist woman and would asterisk some it the things she said in my mind. I found almost no therapist caters to these ideas except maybe a rare therapist with 1st hand experience in modern dating and choosing a certain path. So I went with someone who had a specialty in other things I needed to address. I had an older rational man therapist once but he was so out of touch with modern dating, I dropped him. I found the feminist was better, I just had to translate some things she said. I rely on my network for guidance in dating more than a therapist.

worldlysentiments · 2023-06-13T14:10:00+00:00

Therapist here; therapists are not supposed to put their views on you. I have worked with clients who have different religions, cultures, belief systems and never once did I push my belief on them so I hate thinking that some do this. 🥲

I think your best bet for someone who probably is more aligned with you in the USA would be to look for Christian counselors, even if you aren’t Christian. Many have in their profiles that they utilize Christian values etc which may allude to them being more receptive to your lifestyle aka overall just more conservative in nature and open to a male led relationship.

thesurrenderedwife · 2024-09-28T23:41:47+00:00

I get pastoral counseling and let me tell you it changed my life. My family’s life also.

They’re not asking for money. Never once. And spend hours upon hours focused on the health of our relationship. Just mind blowing.

ALLTHEPILLS · 2023-06-13T18:59:58+00:00

Do you have an ailment that you want to consult on? I would not go to a therapist for dating advice in particular.

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Title: Advice on finding a therapist?

Full text: Hi, I just created this account as I wanted to post here without getting banned from other subs 🙄. I have been quietly reading here for a while and it really makes me feel calmer hearing everyone’s responses and I guess just knowing there are other people who feel this way, and I’m not a total weirdo lol. Anyway I do have a question:

I want to start seeing a therapist and I was wondering if anyone has any advice on how to find one that would be supportive of me wanting a male-led relationship. There are other things I want to discuss of course, but since that is an important goal of mine, and I feel that it is necessary for my happiness, it could be a waste of time to start working with someone who is against this fundamental goal of mine. On the other hand, since it’s rather a niche issue, it may be a waste of time to hold out for someone who aligns on this one issue, when they could be helpful in other areas, such as self-esteem, creating goals, and improving relationships.

Any advice would be appreciated as I’m finding it hard to take the first steps and make an appointment. I’m in the US and I have good insurance and the ability to pay out of pocket, so that part isn’t a concern, which I am truly grateful for.

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Title	Advice on finding a therapist?
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Date	June 13, 2023 1:38 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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