Ok, so I found this subreddit because I was googling “red pill theory” because some asshat at a bar was bragging about it while drunk. I tend to think that being a woman is much harder in the dating scene because I’ve seen so many women in their 20’s go after bad boys and get hurt bad. Then end up 30 and single (with or without a fatherless child) with their looks going down the drain, and unfortunately men are more shallow. This is sometimes because a shy guy is usually too intimidated by her beauty to even talk to her... even though he is 10X the man the other guy is. So honestly I know the red pill thing can be used to score with women, and sometimes these can lead to relationships, but how do I argue against it as a means to fall in love, get married, etc? I’m personally single but honestly every good relationship I’ve had has come from being a confident guy, and from the outside looking in, I was using red pill theory.