Not even an argument but a stupid thing where we were going to see each other and he told me to get off work and then canceled as I was on my way because of reasons… I won’t mention but then agreed we’d go to the movies but then said let’s do that another time. In response my reaction was to cry over the phone and say “this hurts my trust and you need to keep your word”. I hung up, he never called back or reached out until I texted him after a day of silence and he said “you won’t even ask how I’m doing? Why do you do that to me I’m too fragile for that” and he said “what am I supposed to do, my best is not good enough for you”. And I told him how is that your best and that I loved him but needed him to be honest and keep his word and that he’s enough. After that it seemed like everything we built was ruined and it was not the same.

He seemed to pull away and now when I stopped initiating texting he has not contacted me in 4 days.. I’m just so fed up and tired of this behavior. I even asked him if he was going to ignore me last week and he said no, but he is doing just that. He’s not imitating contact. Used to text daily and check in daily .. he did have trouble making plans all the time as he’s sooo busy lol but we did see each other once a month.. I know lame. I am so tired of this… he’s said before that he needs to sort out his stuff so he can make more time so we can see each other weekly and “that’s the goal” but nothing ever happens. I feel like a nag and desperate.. I decided to just not reach out until he does and then give him the taste of his own medicine. Other than this there have not been any issues. He’s bad at communicating and he admitted that, but I’m so frustrated: help