Confused in masculine space

Wife_and_Mama · 2026-04-08T16:02:21+00:00

This is pretty vague. Why has this man's status as divorced and co-parenting been Hell for you? It's great that you're trying to show some accountability here, but if this is the issue, there's only so much you can do.

InevitableKiwi5776 · 2026-04-08T17:56:15+00:00

It’s still not clear what is going on. What have you been trying to fix? Why aren’t you able to control your behavior in the way you want to? Why can’t you stop doing what is causing you pain and anxiety? What values do you share and how is he demonstrating those values? What happened last night to cause you to lose it?

MoreThanPurple · 2026-04-08T15:47:41+00:00

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AutoModerator · 2026-04-08T15:01:42+00:00

Title: Confused in masculine space

Author NiceCrowsMurder

Full text: I'm in a relationship with a man who was divorced by a woman who was unfaithful. Its been absolute hell because they procreated--so they have a child together. Last night I lost it with him and cried and got upset, telling him he didn't love me, etc. I'm anxiously attached. I needed space from him for a few days before that and I felt great. Our values do align but I've been trying to fix and talk and do everything to fix it. I've accidentally slipped into a masculine space. It wasn't like this at the beginning. What is the strategy to correct this and get back into my feminine space?

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Title	Confused in masculine space
Author	NiceCrowsMurder
Upvotes	5
Comments	33
Date	April 8, 2026 3:01 PM UTC (4 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/1sfvdjx/confused_in_masculine_space/
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