Hello ladies!

Love you all. I need some words of encouragement. and or advice. I’m going to start with some context.

About a year ago I was pretty fat, pushing 230lbs (I hadn’t met my bf yet). I was pretty tired of being really tired and unable to run for the bus or away - if I was in danger. So I got myself to the gym and ate right. And lost a bunch of weight. I met him at 190lbs.

I have a ultimate goal of 150 (I’m pretty tall) but I’m hovering at 170 (I broke my arm falling off my bike this summer with made me lose a couple of months). Anyway so now I’m 170 I look pretty good - still biking everywhere I go - still going to the gym 4 to 5 times a week - on my feet at work - studying. Doing my bad ass thing.

The Issue:

Last night my boyfriend and I were on FaceTime and I asked him if he washes his legs when he takes a shower. He said “most of the time” I ewed and said that the backs of my knees sweat - and he said “is that what happens when you’re overweight”?

I was like woah there - I know i have pounds to lose for my own goal but I’m super fit. To hear him say that I’m overweight- in a mean way- made me want to break up with him. But he’s right - I am overweight by 20lbs. He knows my goal.

How do I make this no happen? Or. Do I confront him and say - that was uncool and hurt my ego. Do I ignore? Help me.