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Fight Bitterness

margerym

August 26, 2014
15 upvotes
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Title Fight Bitterness
Author

margerym

Upvotes 15
Comments 12
Date August 26, 2014 11:51 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/2eodqi/fight_bitterness/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/RedPillWomen/fight-bitterness.197023
https://theredarchive.com/post/197023
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Comments

[–]margerym[S] 8 points9 points10 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I love this video. It's such a simple concept but one we have to really be reminded of because we've grown up in a culture that tells us we should never have to do something as horrible as pick up someone else's glass, especially a man's.

We have to catch the nasty thoughts before they turn into nasty words and nasty actions.

[–]LibbyCarrots2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

Oooh, I like this.

Aaaaand like so many of the posts here, this one weighs heavy on my heart.

No more asking Mr. Carrots to please open up his lunch dishes in the sink. It may be stinky, but I think I'll live. :D

Edited to add: I had just come from reading this post that popped up in my facebook feed.

http://www.scarymommy.com/things-women-should-ask-for-in-a-pre-nup/

Yikes! What a stark difference in attitude.

[–]DianaDewAsmr4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The person who wrote this has the driest 'gina on earth.

[–]squishles2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

/#21, but she's holding so much stress, in her vagina :(

[–]margerym[S] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Holy moly! Yup, that is a perfect example of opposites. My goodness!

[–]DanG32 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, something like that .... But, from a guys perspective I would appreciate a hint if the things I did/do are annoying, worse, unattractive. I'm hyper-sensitive to this kind of stuff - now - realizing that "Love won't keep us together." Eventually that stuff piles(d) up, along with the (my) fat, weakness and negativity. I don't have an answer, but I do think that given the past 30+ years of social conditioning "to be themselves," BP guys could use a hint (from their RP Women) that they were marching to the WRONG drummer.

[–]margerym[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Women should always tell their men if something is bothering them. If they don't this leads to bitterness. And by always I mean when it actually matters. What this video is saying is a glass on the floor shouldn't matter to you. Correct. But if something is so huge that it does absolutely bring it up.

[–]DanG30 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Agreed, one (1) glass is not a problem. The pattern/problem is that this stuff gets gunny sacked - ALMOST unconsciously. Women need to know that (most) men DO. NOT. UNDERSTAND. GUNNY SACKING. We don't do it - in our man to man relationships. Take that for what it is.

[–]sierrasechoEndorsed Contributor0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Eventually that stuff piles(d) up, along with the (my) fat, weakness and negativity. I don't have an answer, but I do think that given the past 30+ years of social conditioning "to be themselves," BP guys could use a hint (from their RP Women) that they were marching to the WRONG drummer.

Just a thought: if you self-describe as "fat, weak, and negative" focus on that, rather than if you're annoying your SO by leaving a dish out. Obviously not your post, nor is this where you should be looking for advice, but get the big building blocks in place before you concern yourself with the facade. :)

[–]DanG30 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I was writing illustratively of a (long) past personal experience and that of many betaized men. I was not seeking personal advice, but rather, giving a global suggestion related to my opening words - hinting that the video is simplistic.

[–]VarsitySlutTeamCpt1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Man when I first saw this I thought that the lady was gon bitch out her husband

[–]DianaDewAsmr0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Daaaaaw that's cute! I wish he would come home for lunch too, the few times he did I was so happy.

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