[FR] Into the light

PhantomDream09 · 2015-03-29T23:44:57+00:00

Share this with your wife if you want her to read it, and submit your post TRP if you really want to share. This has nothing to do with RPW, which is why I didn't approve it when you submitted it the first time (I believe under a different account) when the automoderator removed it from the sub.

Tell your wife to stop by and say hello on the 10,000 subscriber post.

TheLadyPainter · 2015-03-29T23:43:12+00:00

Hi there! Sounds like you folks are taking quite the journey together. I read 80% of what you wrote (started skimming towards the end, short on time). I'm relatively young and unmarried myself, but I thought I'd leave my two cents:

In my opinion, a lot of the ladies on here are like your wife, in the sense that we are in that logical section of the bell curve. It takes a lot for a woman to be able to read all the RP canon and swallow the pill anyway. The anger in the writings makes it very difficult; at least, it did for me. It takes a strong logical mind to read it from a distance, consider the source, try to understand the male perspective, and then turn around and try to figure out what the hell to do with yourself as a woman. Finding this sub was a sigh of relief for me. I think she'd enjoy lurking here and reading, even without posting or making an account. I love reading things in here. :) I also lurk in theredpill once in a while; there are some interesting insights there, too, if you can stand the anger.

Props to you for exposing her to the ideas. I've thought about introducing my SO, but I've decided there would really be no benefit to it, and it might just hurt our relationship. I came here looking for a safehaven and guidance in a world that told me what all the cool kids were doing. He never had a need for a male safehaven - a mancave like theredpill. He comes from a very cultural/religious background where the family unit is of utmost importance. He's perfect the way he is - very much the "king" of the relationship, and he treats me like his queen. :)

It seems like you two have been going over the things that she finds negative in the literature ("Did you ever think I used sex as a weapon against you ?"). Maybe you could sit together and find the things that you've both been doing right all along? For example, her trusting your leadership (your first point).

This is more towards your wife - I don't know anything about you other than what was posted here, but part of what made me like RP ideas more and more was just employing some of them in my life. One of the highlights was when my SO asked me on our second date, "What would you do if I asked you to get me a sandwich?" I told him with a big grin, "I'll bring you a beer with it, and a pickle on the side." He laughed for about 10 minutes and then hugged me and kissed me. The joy/relief from him was such a great reward. :) I did it for him a few weeks later. Embrace it, try it out, and see what joy it brings you.

Title	[FR] Into the light
Author	TheGreasyPole
Upvotes	0
Comments	16
Date	March 29, 2015 10:13 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/30qqv2/fr_into_the_light/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/RedPillWomen/fr-into-the-light.166158 https://theredarchive.com/post/166158

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