He talks like a kid...

roserose91 · 2016-07-23T22:23:24+00:00

I like the face coupled with "it's hard to take you seriously..." I'll give it a try for sure.

roserose91 · 2016-07-23T21:07:18+00:00

Not angry just annoyed. My mother used to tell me I was annoying when I did it and I never understood. Until now.

And no, I don't do it anymore. Also it's in a tone, not like goo goo ga ga.

And I say he started because of me because he never used to it when we first started dating.

FleetingWish · 2016-07-24T18:41:52+00:00

I used to baby talk a lot... I have since stopped and have been trying to be more lady like

I actually think this right here is your problem. Being feminine does not necessarily mean being super sophisticated all the time. Part of femininity is playfulness. When your SO baby talks with you, he is trying to play with you. Playing with one another is something that fosters bonding between men and women. What you think you are saying to him, when you don't participate in his games is, "I am too mature and sophisticated for that." But, what he is hearing is, "I don't like participating in games with you any more". I recommend going back to joining him in silly talk and laughter.

Read This.

rproller · 2016-07-23T20:56:28+00:00

So let me get this straight.

You used to baby-talk in the past, and you believe that because of your baby-talking, he has started talking like a baby, too.

What? I'm not understanding how you're angry about this. Do you still talk that way? Is it just in the tone, or are is he/you literally like, "Gaa gaa GOO?!" ?

roserose91 · 2016-07-23T22:32:10+00:00

This makes sense. And I'm glad I made you laugh. And he does realize he does it and said once or twice I'll stop and didn't. So I would say he does want to change. Thank goodness! Haha

Marazion · 2016-07-24T13:05:07+00:00

My husband talks in a different voice to me than he does to anyone else. I kinda like it, he's so soft and gentle with me even though he is basically a giant :D

shiro07 · 2016-07-23T21:47:50+00:00

There are two ways always to handle things, the pretty one and the ugly one.

I have a rule that says when the problem has alpha attributes like for instance the guy has an anger issue, is being rude or careless, the problem should be approached peacefully with something like "Honey, everything has been great until now but i'm afraid the next time you lose your temper something happens and we lose what we have", here you should always mend, and never bend.

However when the problem is a beta behavior (talking like a kid) the harsh treatment applies, there is a reason that women's natural and unconscious response to betaness is always brutal, you can see that most of men at TRP woke up after a woman has kicked their butt. As to your case I'd recommend being yourself around him though when he does that act you have a poker face, maybe do a facial expression that says "what are you doing!?" and sometimes stay silent and don't respond to what he's saying with that tone, he should hopefully pick it up. Do keep in mind that you're not disrespecting him, he disrespected himself.

However it may escalate by him saying "why are you giving me that look" or something, in that case retreat and don't do much about it, just pray to god that he stops doing it or that he gives you the patience to handle it.

Title	He talks like a kid...
Author	roserose91
Upvotes	2
Comments	12
Date	July 23, 2016 8:33 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/4u9y3d/he_talks_like_a_kid/
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