How to be seductive/sensual without being promiscuous/vulgar?

Anonymous_fiend · 2022-07-19T01:55:22+00:00

The art of seduction. Knowing what type of feminine archetype you are will help you learn how to be seductive. While vulgarity can work for some women it may not be your archetype style.

WeAreJack · 2022-07-19T00:48:10+00:00

I've really liked girls who will find excuses to brush up against me. A good example is when I'm standing behind her for whatever reason and she just gently backs into me... ass to crotch, of course. Maybe swaying her hips a little.

Or just resting her hand on the inside of my thigh while we're watching a movie. Not quite touching *there*, but close enough to get it on my mind.

But it doesn't even have to be that obvious. Any gentle, teasing physical touch is going to get my mind on edge a little.

TheBunk_TB · 2022-07-18T17:15:40+00:00

Subtlety.

Acting is often offputting if you don't believe it yourself.

Start with subtlety.

I think this is something that Dita von Teese might have talked about before

chrisdidwht · 2022-07-19T03:07:24+00:00

What is considered promiscuous and vulgar is completely between you and your partner. Some people find some things vanilla that others find extremely kinky. Of course don't do anything you arent comfortable with and dont have him to anything he is uncomfortable with. You should both be able to please eachother within your own individual boundaries. Compromise and trying new things of course is an option if you choose to do so.

ClaudiaFlowers · 2022-07-18T19:07:30+00:00

Learn to move your hips, give him a lap dance, suck his ding dong right, and entice the hell out of him. From my experience, that’s how you make the men coming back for more. Subtlety is huge, remember to go slow and low, be romantic and submissive.

Ruffleafewfeathers · 2022-07-19T05:13:45+00:00

I would personally ask your partner what he would like—you can frame it sensually as wanting to be his perfect woman. For my relationship, I believe very much in the adage “lady in the streets, freak in the sheets.” But I do find that it’s easier for me if I make an effort to make myself feel sexy.

For example, I’ll do fun things, like making him breakfast in lingerie or bending over unnecessarily sexily in front of him. Silly stuff that puts us both in the mood.

Best of luck!

thatbwoyChaka · 2022-07-22T16:08:17+00:00

Watch this scene from the film North by Northwest in it Eva Marie Saint is classically seductive - aim just a bit above that and you’ll be golden.

2022-07-25T23:13:20+00:00

Sensuality and seduction are about confidence and breaking it down into the meaning of the word. Sensuality is literally about the senses. Do you appeal to your boyfriend with all 5 senses? This could look like having a signature fragrance, regularly exfoliating so your skin is soft, looking put together, wearing bracelets/heels that make a specific sound, etc etc.

Seduction is ultimately trying to understand the other person; it's not about you. It's understanding what makes the other person tick and delivering it. A man who has a stressful career is probably not going to like a partner with a playful demeanor because that would be tiresome. However someone who's bored or living a life that's super regimented would enjoy someone who has a playful presence. Think about what your partner might subconsciously need more of and try and deliver that.

None of the above is vulgar and especially the advice about sensuality, it might not even be perceptible to others (since you're only focusing on your partner, assuming only your partner gets to cross the personal space boundary).

Title	How to be seductive/sensual without being promiscuous/vulgar?
Author	Dapper-Reality-418
Upvotes	35
Comments	18
Date	July 18, 2022 4:50 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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