I know a lot of teenagers and adults have this issue. First I start out doubting that I can do something , I procrastinate , then I try for five seconds , fail , quit and then move on. I can't complete a single goal. I gained 40 lbs in a year , my grades are failing , I can only bake cookies and choclate cake (cheaply.) I am terrible with young children cause of my social awkwardness , I still havn't gotten out of my IEP , have anger issues and I am boring as socks. I discovered this subbredit when I was 14 and now i'm sixteen and whever I try to improve I begin a cycle of failure. I have tried to motivate myself with the goal of making my whole family and a guy happy. I have tried belittleing myself to make myself try harder.. I have tried threatening to take away my manga if I don't shape up. How do I continue with my goals