I'm in love.. Need advice!

bekkys · 2022-01-20T18:46:12+00:00

I dont know what your opinions on sex are but personally I would hold off for a while until you have figured out what you want from this man.

rosesonthefloor · 2022-01-20T19:21:22+00:00

What do you mean by “privileges that the other girls don’t have”?

Like the other commenter said, tread carefully. He’s made it clear you’re a plate. What do you want out of the relationship?

Protocol_Apollo · 2022-01-21T01:52:53+00:00

First things first, guy does sound a bit spergy for sending you here. Appears he hasn’t read my post about fight club.

Secondly, seeing a bit of pearl clutching and irrelevant remarks over what I assume is a one sided open relationship (ie you’re monogamous, he’s not).

This is the most natural form of relationships, top men have always had rotations leaving the bottom men with nothing. They all had a main girl/girls and side hoes. You still see this today in Eastern Europe with mob bosses having a wife and mistresses. And within elite social circles. Their wives will always say something along the lines of “yes he has his fun but I’m his wife.”

For the lurkers, pearl snatchers and maybe OP, the key to this is making sure the guy is not only telling you but keeping the difference very clear between you and the other girls. He has to not only maintain the privileges he gives to you (whatever they may be) but also make sure the others don’t get a whiff of them. Keep the contrast stark.

It can be whatever you want. Eg

Main girl gets to have his kids, side girls don’t.

Main girl gets taken to restaurants /vacations , side girls don’t.

Main girl gets to accompany him to work/family events, side girls don’t.

Main girl gets to sleep with him, side girls don’t.

Just make sure there’s a difference/find the privileges you want and ensure he upholds it.

Guys can absolutely be loyal to their woman without being sexually loyal. They can show loyalty in other ways. The opposite cannot be said.

The time to end the relationship is not when he bangs other girls but when he stops doing the regular Sunday activity with you and instead with someone else.

“The difference between a side bitch and a main girl is that although you bang both of them, one of them gets kicked out right after and the other gets fucked again before you take her to grab some food.” - Apollo

johnnycage24 · 2022-01-21T00:00:26+00:00

Warning. If he is seeing other women be cautious how you make your next steps, men are known manipulators and sleazeballs, good luck.

Title	I'm in love.. Need advice!
Author	Bowtruckle_
Upvotes	0
Comments	10
Date	January 20, 2022 5:35 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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