Hi ladies: I'm posting a ton, I know. But I feel so blessed to have your input as I continue to pursue my feminine journey. I've been really struggling to improve my character. For years I was always very intellectual in conversation to the point of being masculine, had a dirty but witty sense of humour and was always very flirtatious when dating. I'm striving to be more feminine in character, and made great strides in being more soft-spoken, allowing men to pursue and lead me and eliminating swearing, but I feel like I'm completely hiding parts of my personality, particularly the part about my sense of humour and flirting in dating. I find myself holding back a lot.

Essentially, how can I improve myself without completely eliminating my personality. Has anyone gone through this struggle too?