Hi girls,

I’m 27 and finally moving out from my parents.

I decided to do that because I realized I was still being treated like a child and honestly still acting like one.

It’s very hard emotionally because I hate being alone and my parents and brother were giving me emotional support when i was living with them. I have strong traits of an emotionally dependent person, and I have always just done what my parents expected of me. So I had a wake up call once I realized it was up to me to make a change and not my parents fault.

Having said that, I am still planning on coming back for the weekends.

I moved in an appartment with 4 other women I don’t know ( rent was low and downtown) and being in the appartement kind of puts me in a low mood because things are not clean, there is no living room and the girls don’t really talk to each other.

I feel a little scared (a lot) to be on my own, and even questioning if I made the right choice.

So I wanted to ask if any of you had any tips on how to cope, stay positive and use this situation to better myself and become finally someone independant that can bring value to a relationship once I find my special person. Also do you think moving out of your parents is worth it?

Thank you 🙏🏼