Need help fixing my image

Banincoming · 2017-02-26T22:58:14+00:00

Tinder is for sex. If you tell people you use tinder, they will assume you are having lots of exciting sex with lots and lots of people.

VigilantRedRooster · 2017-02-27T18:33:21+00:00

Tinder has a reputation as a hook-up site, I don't care what people try to say about it. Try another dating site, even POF, with the filters set for the more serious relationship options.

Make sure your profile describes yourself well, the type of relationship you seek, and the type of man you're interested in. Try to use mostly positive declarations that sounds inviting to qualified candidates; don't have mostly a long list of things you don't want.

In person, how are you with exchanging IOIs? Do men approach you? Are you able to retain interesting ones or do approaches and conversations fizzle? Maybe feedback from a reliable wingwoman watching you in action would be helpful.

est-la-lune · 2017-02-26T23:26:13+00:00

Are you from a really conservative area?

I've never heard someone suggest a woman is slutty because she's outgoing and friendly. If anything, watch your body language because I do think there's a difference between being comfortable with physical contact and being touchy.

Closetfeminine · 2017-02-27T13:57:16+00:00

It sounds like by being physical and messaging friends you find "cute", people are reading you as being too forward and agressive, the way a more experienced woman would be.

smirk_addict · 2017-02-27T16:22:20+00:00

I don't want to sound harsh. I'm just going to shoot straight. How attractive do you think you are? You may not be able to get the attention of the guys you want, and other guys don't exist to you. You also sound like a extrovert.

Also.. You are virgin. Or so you say. You are on tinder. You message guys you think are cute on Facebook, and you admit to being a touchy. People don't think you are slut. They think you are an attention seeking cock tease. You probably tell guys you think they are attractive but then when they reciprocate you ease off and check out. And then you are on to the next guy. Nobody wants to be around people like this. Men or women.

Closetfeminine · 2017-02-27T15:01:05+00:00

Maybe the touchy is what's wrong here. Like how touchy? Like hug male acquaintances touchy?

Alright, stop messaging multiple people on Facebook. Maybe take a break from tinder too. Work on your image first then let them come to you.

You strike the as someone who seems to be all over the place, roller coaster like.

Rivkariver · 2017-02-28T19:50:20+00:00

Just rein it in a little. You don't have to flirt to connect always.

beachbloke · 2017-02-28T22:10:33+00:00

I don't think the things you are listing are dealbreakers, which makes me think you aren't considering an aspect of yourself. Back to basics, are you attractive? Weight under control? Make an alt account and post on /r/Rateme if you don't know

Title	Need help fixing my image
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Upvotes	5
Comments	23
Date	February 26, 2017 9:06 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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