Hello ! I need ure help please Im in love with a man for 6 months now.im sure he loves me too , the first problem is that he used violence with me twice,and i cannot forget abt that .the first time he slapped me cause i found a condom in his house and i was too angry (since we dont use it) . The scnd time he did it because he was jealous of having male friends on Facebook . Th scnd problem :he doesnt respect me ,for exemple when he was jealous abt male friends ,he called me bitch ... He cheat on me with Girls ,i found msgs and tinder in his phone ,he has sex with girls (cause we only do preliminary things such as blow job ...) Moreover :hes not in my city anymore ,so we cant meet everyday as we used to do before .so he calls me rarely ,he cares rarely and when i ask him why he answers that there is nothing to talk abt or keeps giving me excuses . Please help me Im not happy but i love him so much I dunno if his reactions r normal or nor