Taking a break from LTR

bloobird08 · 2018-07-04T16:18:04+00:00

If you’ve been dating 8 months and haven’t connected on a deeper level, you likely never will.

Smalldemxn · 2018-07-04T06:16:53+00:00

Hi dear. I see you've most likely lost interest in him. That's fine because it sometimes happens. Don't blame yourself or him! No one is at fault here.

You've listed a few negative traits of his but honestly no one is perfect. They may be bothering you but if you really loved him, you'd have no problem accepting him the way he is.

Connecting in a deeper level isn't all about talking. I just feel like you guys didn't have a strong enough chemistry.

From what you've told here, I feel like you're pretty hopeless about the whole issue. You don't want to fix it, you want to avoid it. That's why you suggested a break. Breaks are hardly ever good, five bucks your guy assumed you were over and is now looking for a new girl.

I'd say take a break from dating and actually explain everything to your man. Tell him you've been feeling stressed out an down lately and want to continue when you think you can contribute something to the relationship. Don't forget to tell him this is a break, not a break up.

Spend time on yourself. Go shopping, get your hair done, go to the gym. Maybe get a new diet and eat healthy? This is the time you want to give yourself all your love. If you don't, who will?

Good luck!

ManguZa · 2018-07-04T08:04:19+00:00

Do you have another guy you're interested with?

MNHTN · 2018-07-04T21:02:03+00:00

not being assertive enough in a group setting

Example of what he should be doing that he's not?

[deleted] · 2018-07-07T13:22:11+00:00

"Going on a break" is just another way of saying you've lost interest and want to break up. The other partner almost always takes it as being broken up with and the relationship isn't the same (and not in a good way) afterwards. Especially if the initiator sees someone else in the interim, which seems to happen a lot.

red_philosopher · 2018-07-10T06:14:53+00:00

I would never trust a woman that suggested we "take a break" while I am off in a other country for work for 2 weeks. Any LTR of mine that said that would INSTANTLY be demoted out of LTR and I'd be looking for new options. This is a manipulative, emotional, power-play, and it's nigh unforgivable.

Edit: You want to get married and you are pulling this stuff in an 8-month relationship? Eeech.

Title	Taking a break from LTR
Author	gaidanzai
Upvotes	0
Comments	12
Date	July 4, 2018 5:23 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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