I recently saw a post that said: “remember to marry a man who wants to be a husband and father, not a man who wants a wife and baby” — growing up in a traditional household and community I assumed this was something everyone was taught. But so many women in the comments were sharing that had not considered or prioritized this, or expressed they only learned this after a failed marriage. Growing up my family would always make comments like “money” isn’t going to comfort you when you need support ” or “looks won’t throw the ball around with your son etc.”. The goal obviously is to find a man who has it all, but if your desire is to be a traditional wife and mother, please ensure your pick really has the desire to be a husband and father. This may be something many of you already know, but just thought I’d share.