Thought this was brilliant

VasiliyZaitzev · 2024-06-30T04:59:57+00:00

I am reminded of this: “You do not get cooler as you get older, but you do care a lot less about being cool, which is the One True Way of being cool. This is known as the ‘Geezer’s Paradox’.”

serene_brutality · 2024-06-30T06:58:00+00:00

Learning not to react negatively is a super power too. “Tact is the art of telling someone to go fuck themselves and them thanking you for it.” Nothing drives a toxic person crazier than shrugging off their aggressions or not reacting emotionally at all.

RatchedAngle · 2024-06-30T10:25:17+00:00

There’s a common form of false confidence where people will smile smugly and say “I’m unbothered by drama, I don’t give a damn what people say about me.” Yet it’s so very clear that these people are bothered and are trying so hard to project the image of being “unbothered.”

The true key to being “unbothered” is to openly admit when someone’s behavior is troubling you. Your man’s ex-girlfriend accused him of downgrading? It’s okay to admit to others that it was a hurtful comment and it upset you.

It’s amazing how quickly you’re able to let things go and stop responding negatively to others’ actions when you let go of your ego and desire to be seen a certain way.

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Title: Thought this was brilliant

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The real flex is learning to raise your emotional intelligence so toxic people can't play mind games with you, learning to pause before reacting so manipulators can't disrespect you and blame you for your negative reactions, and learning to say "no" so takers can't take from you. Mind Tendencies 2 - Thirdeyethirst

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Title	Thought this was brilliant
Author	zaftig_stig
Upvotes	15
Comments	7
Date	June 30, 2024 4:13 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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