Timeline for commitment/letting things go

Chihuahuamami234 · 2024-04-01T02:33:14+00:00

I recently had this happen. As bad as it hurts now, you’ll be glad you let him go. You cannot wait around for a guy that does not want to commit. Our time as women is precious and we can’t afford to spend it on a guy that just wants to play the field.

PillUpAss · 2024-04-01T11:30:42+00:00

Just to offer a different perspective for you to consider: what did you do to make commitment appealing to him?

Continuing to get some isn’t enough for guys with options. Getting some may not be an issue for him.

That takes away a big chess piece women are used to having. But it also opens up other opportunities.

From what I’ve seen, RPW is about triggering the man’s innate instincts to WANT to be with you, even beyond base companionship and sex.

How did you put RPW principles in play to help achieve this?

Because in your post, all I see is what you want, what you got from him and how you feel.

Annual_Resolution232 · 2024-04-01T03:05:47+00:00

You made the right decision. It's sad and painful right now, but time will help heal it. You'll look back on this and will be glad you respected yourself making this decision. Best wishes moving forward:)

RelativeMud4111 · 2024-04-01T02:05:20+00:00

He’s not done playing the field or he doesn’t see you as a girl he wants to be in a relationship with.

AutoModerator · 2024-04-01T01:58:57+00:00

Title: Timeline for commitment/letting things go

Author OkForever1057

Full text: Hello ladies. I’m 26 and ready for a committed relationship to be married.

I feel like I met the perfect guy. I have literally prayed for someone like him. He respects me and treats me well. Doesn’t even let me touch a door. We talk every single day. I have developed very strong feelings for him. We have been texting since December and have been dating since January. With that being said he is dragging his feet on making me his girlfriend. When I asked him a month ago when does he plan to he tells me that he sees this going somewhere and that he has invested a lot into me but cannot make any promises right now.

Today I let him go and I am so sad. I don’t know if I’ll ever hear from him again and idk if I rushed things but I feel like he should know if he wants to be in a relationship with me by now. What do you all think?

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countrylemon · 2024-04-01T11:46:25+00:00

Stop seeing someone who isn’t willing to commit.

Title	Timeline for commitment/letting things go
Author	OkForever1057
Upvotes	14
Comments	17
Date	April 1, 2024 1:58 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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