I'm 35 years old, single - not a lot of friends. Everywhere on reddit and talking to an acquaintance of mine - men care less for career success, wealth and more about dating pretty 20 year olds. I have never been blessed with a pretty face. I have gone on a few dates but nothing sticks. I don't crack mirrors when I walk past them and I don't make small children cry. I am quite adventurous, I have been on international trips solo, go hiking and work out regularly. I dress nice and wear a little makeup when I go out. I'm smart, have a good income and pick things up quickly at work. I consider myself having a sweet and open personality, helping friends move, always available to coworkers. I have have had excellent reviews from my managers. I have been embarrassed and humiliated by opening myself up but I try to not to be the stumbling shy girl. Guys are happy for my company until they find a girlfriend. I hate this hand I was dealt with.