When your Captain is bored

countrylemon · 2019-05-29T13:39:23+00:00

Why does it need to be calming and relaxing? That's not the type of thing to reignite the passion in someone.

HB3234 · 2019-05-30T02:13:03+00:00

Sometimes when a man is depressed, you need to feed him well, do your part, be a source of cheer if he seeks you out... but also give him space. Unless he has a history of mental illness, he may be acting depressed because of stress at work, or concerns he hasn't shared, or many other reasons. His inactivity at home may be a symptom rather than a cause.

You can invite him to join you for activities, but don't be pushy if he shows resistance. Sometimes getting a tired person moving can be rejuvenating, so walks together can be nice, or go harder on the exercise by going to a climbing gym together, join friends for volleyball in the evening, etc.

Or maybe you can do something that can go either way, like a visit to a beach/ lake/river, where you can hike or walk, or swim, or nap on the shore.

aftertheafter-party · 2019-05-29T14:55:34+00:00

We take a lot of long walks together, & we just signed up for a yoga class together.

Can you plan a vacation together? Sounds like you need a reset.

LateralThinker13 · 2019-05-30T15:16:21+00:00

Boardgames are fun. Or have him build you something. It's a plus if he doesn't know how, so has to acquire the knowledge and tools to do it.

Title	When your Captain is bored
Author	LadyFrugal
Upvotes	12
Comments	9
Date	May 28, 2019 3:55 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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