[30] M discovered gf [23] cheating

beachbbqlover · 2017-01-01T08:52:15+00:00

she deserves it and I will continue to treat these kind of women like the scum they are.

You're maligned. They're not scum, they're women. You don't get mad at the cat because it's frustrating to herd cats or because it shit on your floor.

Next time they won't get close enough to LTR status.

That'll sure teach them. I mean her. Except it's a different person?

I would suggest you're not sociopathic, just exhausted with the failed shit tests to the point of IDGAF.

I would frequently do thing selflessly for her to be happy.

Mostly we would blame me for everything like a crazy person.

You accepted her low evaluation of you equating to low SMV. Arguing lowers it further. So does fighting. So does trying to prove yourself.

She did what was natural.

BestSC86 · 2017-01-01T04:24:29+00:00

It was a toxic relationship from the beginning, but you tolerated because the pussy was good.

You didn't submit though which in the long run will make you happier....she is off to find her beta provider and will be married in two years tops with a couple of kids within 5 years.

Lsegundo · 2017-01-01T15:25:41+00:00

Your turn is over. Sounds like you had a good run. Congratulations.

Your 2017: Freedom!, opportunity to find more/better females

Her 2017: Skyrocketing N count through pump and dumps, eventually realizes she lost her captain, possible alpha widowing

thefisherman1964 · 2017-01-02T08:18:23+00:00

I sometimes wonder am I red pill, or am I a sociopath

Who cares. A lot of guys would envy you to be in a position where getting cheated on doesn't hurt in the slightest. It must be nice to have such a strong IDGAF attitude

Truthfully she deserves it and I will continue to treat these kind of women like the scum they are

She's not scum. Don't blame women, why wouldn't she enjoy strange cock if she has the opportunity? You don't get mad at a fish for swimming just like you don't get mad at a woman for cheating. All women will cheat under the right circumstances - meaning if her partner is too beta. You weren't alpha enough so she found a guy that she (perceived) to be more alpha than you. It's your fault that she cheated on you. Women have zero concept of honor and loyalty so don't ever expect them to be loyal and honorable because they can't do it. Hypergamy prevents it. They are evolutionary programmed to be disloyal and dishonorable because it means she will have a higher chance of getting access to better genetics to reproduce with. It's no different than you being evolutionary programmed to eat food.

If you don't give a fuck that's great - many guys would envy you. But if you don't want that to happen to you again, then be more alpha to reduce the chances of it happening again.

perplexedm · 2017-01-01T14:33:59+00:00

I haven't said or done anything that is misogynistic to her but she just feel powerless against me. Maybe she did that as a way to gain power. Who knows?

The reason why they abuse their victim card, etc. is all because of this. They want attention, then power over the relationships.

I sometimes wonder am I red pill, or am I a sociopath ?

In current world, if you can see through bullshit you face everyday, many will automagically turn to sociopaths. But, that is not a good option.

_Insidious_ · 2017-01-01T03:41:57+00:00

Red pill as fuck bro. Don't stop being the brick wall.

bomerr · 2017-01-02T04:33:12+00:00

Honestly from the sound of it you seem like total asshole here.

You are a 30 year old immature man with trust issues. You are a dick, you don't care what other people think of you and you don't care about taking responsibility for your actions. Yes you are a Sociopath or at the very least severely damaged.

Here is the truth. Healthy relationships require both people to trust each other. Both people to look out for each other's best interest. Anything else leads to trust issues. You start developing an unhealthily mentality (is this person cheating on me? are they ignoring me? are they trying to overpower me). Instead of helping each other grow, the relationship becomes a competition for dominance. It's a death cycle. No person makes any compromises for the other person. Arguments and fights occur. Eventually one person realizes they aren't satisfied in the relationship and they cheat. This template seems to fit your relationship very well.

If you were a healthy individual you would realize that yes a lot of women (and men) cannot be trusted which is why it's too important to properly vet them. Instead you make justifications and rationalize for why LTR are bad and further Harden the trust issues.

Next time they won't get close enough to LTR status

But this will just stop you from ever being happy because deep down on the inside you know that

I would frequently do thing selflessly for her to be happy.

You need to fix yourself m8.

As for this women. She probably has problems of her own if she was willing to be with your for 2 years.

speak_ur_mind · 2017-01-02T10:55:04+00:00

You treated her like shit.

She cheated out of frustration and you finally have a reason to justify your shitty behaviour.

Ofcourse you find it funny- this gave you a scapegoat to justify your dick behaviour. You don't own your behaviour at all and call the chick crazy.

Title	[30] M discovered gf [23] cheating
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Date	January 1, 2017 3:01 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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