Summary: Every now and then, whether it is in PUA or red pill, I have encountered guys (real life and internet) who wanted to know how to get "blondes" as in the stereotype hot blonde party girl type. Having helped guys in real life fix their dating lives after they went through break ups or just a very strict upbringing, I noticed that a lot of guys have it on their list (at least in the USA) to obtain the blonde party girl type for a ONS but what they are after is not the blonde herself, but the experience of having the blonde party girl type. It is almost like they want to use an animus machine and become Chad. Eliot Rodger was an extreme example of this kind of issue I am talking about.

The fantasy explained:

Red pill, pickup, and other relevant stuff tends to cater strong to one type of guy; the guy that missed out. Chad and the naturals who peaked early, they are not usually going to come to places like this. Most of them will either continue doing what they are good at or they will settle down with a girl and get married early, but this thread isn't about that. It is about the blonde desire that runs so deep in a lot of pickup and other relevant communities that I felt the need to explain it.

Here in American culture, the blonde party girl type with good looks is the ultimate status symbol. If you think up of the image of Chad, the kind of girl he would be fucking would be the blonde party girl type. The high school jock is shown as getting that type of girl and just about any higher SMV guy in American culture is shown as having those kinds of girls love him. While that is slowly changing as other kinds of women become more popular, the fact is, hot blondes aren't going out of style anytime soon.

I am not here to debate what kinds of women are hotter or better looking based on race, skin color, or hair color. You have your preference and other guys have theirs, I am here to say why guys have a preference for these kinds of women. Don't bother telling me about how you prefer Asians or whatever, me and most of the world hardly give a shit about you or your preferences anyways.

Now lets get back to the late bloomer who stumbled on to game material, red pill, and actually decided to seek out help with women. Chances are, if the guy went as far as to read the material and truly engage in the community, he wants to make up for lost time. Most of the times, the guy wants what he didn't have growing up, the popularity and cool kid status. He wasn't the jock in high school, the college athlete who had large followings, or the fraternity president. Most kids who were low status in those years will get over it, move on with their lives, and just tell themselves that people were shallow anyways.

Then you get the guy who has that hunger inside of him, he wants that hot blonde party girl but he doesn't simply want her, he wants the experience of having her. An escort won't do it and neither would getting some foreign blonde with an accent from Russia (who in all likelihood would be more attractive than your typical American bimbo). Sex with the blonde party girl types is a byproduct of being a Chad, your typical guy who hungers for that kind of girl wants what I like to call the Chad experience. The guy doesn't just want to have sex with her, he wants her to acknowledge him, to be attracted to him, to treat him as she would a guy she is attracted to, and for others to see him with her.

The guy might not even be physically attracted to blondes, he might feel sex with a latina to be much more satisfying, but it isn't about the sex. It is about the image, the status, and the Chad experience. The guy wants to fuck a hot blonde party girl type, have her being attracted to him, fall for him, and for others to see it. Even if he doesn't find her attractive, just having that experience is what will fill that emptiness inside of him because deep down, he wanted that emptiness inside of him to be satisfied.

It is like beating that one time that always ruined your championship run in sports, you just want to beat them once and get the monkey off of your back. You still feel that burn on how the hot blonde rejected you during her high school and college years where her SMV was high and yours was low, now you want to fuck her as some sort of rite of passage into American manhood. You might not even be that attracted to her but deep down inside, your ego was badly bruised. It is why you even bothered to invest so much time into PUA and sexual strategy, to fill an empty gap from your past.

But wait, what's with all of these Asians, Indians, and Arabs being so thirsty for these kinds of women?

Well, men from those immigrant groups are the ones who are most likely to be late bloomer due to immigrant parents that stop them from enjoying their youth, so they are not likely to be the cool kids in high school. Now add to that the fact that those immigrant groups are generally very shallow and status hungry, the desire for the hot blonde goes up even more. With Asians and Indians, throw in this relentless hunger for success and you have this phenomenon. I will go into detail about this more on a future thread.

Lessons learned:

Most guys who have this hot blonde party girl desire are not necessarily attracted to these women, they go for them as some sort of rite of passage into American manhood. They don't just want sex, they want the Chad experience because getting the hot blonde party girl type is a byproduct of being a Chad.