Summary: No matter how good the now is don't sacrifice the future for it.

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I am in an LTR with a HB7 who is by a lot of definitions a unicorn to some here in TRP. I have posted on her before:

TBH the only reason I'm in an LTR is I stumbled onto a woman who some how managed to stay a virgin until she was 28 cause she was crippled by fear of intimacy. She gave almost no signs of interest and if it wasn't for a common friend I would have had no fucking idea she was interested at all.

Our first date ended with a I don't want to ruin our friendship handshake I was nexting her until I found out she had been on like 3 dates her entire adult life. Even than I didn't believe it until I popped her cherry. I literally had to teach her some of the most basic elements of kissing.

I can't figure it out either. 5 '3", 100 lb, Asian HB7. The only thing which is a negative is she is an A/B cup which personally I don't really care much about.

Barring you running into some ridiculous situation like this LTRs seem like a relic of a bygone era.

However today I received an optional transfer request from work to a position across the country literally 3000 Km away. This position is not a better paying position in fact it is parallel. However the value of the money I make there due to the difference in market conditions is 1.2x and the potential for advancement is almost assured with a salary increase of 20% in approximately 2 - 4 years.

So today I am going to let a "unicorn" free because tomorrow is more important than today and no woman is worth sacrificing your future for today.

Lessons Learned:

  • No woman is worth giving up your potential
  • The value of a dollar is subject to the market you are in
  • Giving up something today is often worth more in the future