A submissive's question

Clauderoughly · 2013-12-12T07:01:31+00:00

Does this sub-reddit believe in love and affection?

Yes, we do. A lot of this subreddit is understanding the way that love and affection works between men and women. There are many married RP members (I am one) here and we use RP theory to greatly improve the relationships we have with the women in our lives.

We seek to cultivate the behaviors in men, that inspire love, affection and attraction in women.

How that attraction is acted upon is up to individual members. Some use it for casual relationships and one night stands, others look at more of a long term view.

What are some major ideals?

Understanding how attraction actually works between men and women, vs what society and feminist tells us, and trying to instill those qualities and values within ourselves.

We aren't really a social movement like /r/MensRights because we realize we can't change the world. We have deep believers that traditional gender roles are pretty much hard coded into our respective DNA's.

We want to make the most of the world we are in.

That's my personal view anyway.

luxury_banana · 2013-12-12T07:07:20+00:00

I don't think that anyone in this subreddit seriously believes in love as it's sold to us in modern times. It's essentially a chemical cocktail in your brain as a result to certain stimuli that has been exalted and raised to the status of some sort of inexplicable supernatural or even religious belief, sort of like the belief in the "human soul."

While you may have an actually equitable relationship with your boyfriend where you get all the stimuli required to be in "love" with him or maybe even loyal to him and you give him a good return for what gives you, you should understand that is far from the rule when it comes to modern relationships and possibly relationships historically in general.

A few years down the road when the newness of your chemical high wears off you may find yourself wandering when you see a bigger better deal come along, a phenomenon often referred to as the "X year itch" or a "feral mating cycle" which is essentially a period of time, maybe 4-7 years where a woman could have a child with a man, and have that child grow up enough that it doesn't require constant all-day supervision. Women often divorce these days for vague reasons like "I need to find myself" which is all-too-often code for wanting a new man.

Ormild · 2013-12-12T10:19:03+00:00

I once thought I would fall in love and marry a girl. This idea was sold to me by movies that getting married to a woman was the end all be all of your life. Marry a woman, grow old, have kids, have a house, etc, but as I grew older and more confident I realized that the way I've perceived women and my interactions towards women were all wrong. Deep down I knew there was something wrong, but I could never put my finger on it. TRP really helped put things in perspective. Girls don't like guys who act like the people from romance movies.

I don't think I'll ever fall in love tbh, maybe it's the bitter reality of knowing that the world doesn't work like I once believed. I'm glad that old part of me is slowly dying because I like who I'm becoming. I owe TRP everything.

Endevour · 2013-12-12T09:12:35+00:00

Unrelated, can I ask how you found TRP?

Bang_on · 2013-12-12T08:52:13+00:00

Here's how I see it.

Love, like respect, is different for a man and a woman. This, in itself, is the main difference between a feminist-based perception of relationships and what seems to be a reality based one - that there is in fact a difference between how the sexes experience one another. So what a lot of people call "love" is usually the feminine version of it. Caring about how the other person feels and so on. The touchy-feely business we give you a hard time for on Valentines day. For a man, love is in the caretaking itself. It's completely different.

sometimesiamamoose · 2013-12-12T08:36:36+00:00

god bless you submissive women. If only there were more pretty ones.

bgny · 2013-12-12T07:02:17+00:00

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Title	A submissive's question
Author	sometimesiamamoose
Upvotes	21
Comments	24
Date	December 12, 2013 6:52 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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