Valentines Day can be a complicated, confusing time for us plate spinning alphas. The betas have it pretty easy, just do the same thing that they have been doing all year long. LTR dudes dont have it complicated either, just be her tool for social media ego masturbation in exchange for culturally mandated sex at the end of the day.

Why start talking about Valentines Day three weeks out? Because we men, plan things out. Men bring burritos to amusement parks because they know they are going to be hungry later. On the other hand, for the average 20 something year old women, hunger is something that just happens to her, she responds to it when it does, and is unaccountable for what hunger makes her do. Now that all of the queers are triggered, lets talk strategy.

On one hand not playing the Valentines day game has a pretty high opportunity costs. Your hoes might get mad that you don't treat them right and cause drama. On the other hand, Valentines day is a trap where men are told to grovel in exchange for sex. Finally Valentines day forces you to juggle all of your lady friends on the same day. Overall its a cluster fuck and I guess you should start planing now.

I guess a good rule is to give flowers to every girl you had sex with in the three weeks leading up to Valentines. They key is to maintain frame. You got her flowers because that's what you like to do on valentines, not because you expect anything from her in return. Call her up, nonchalantly tell her you're coming over to get the favorite pair of socks you forgot. Then hand her some flowers and a stupid card.. If there are multiple woman in your life I suggest, spacing out the flower deliveries as to avoid any scheduling conflicts. Protip if a woman is cheating with you don't get her incriminating flowers. Maybe just get her some peeps for puting your peep in her mouth, she'll appreciate the thought.

But im a cool guy and im not going indulge these women in their lame mainstream fantasy. Women take valentines and flowers realy seriously. Its the Superbowl of validation. If some other guy can make her feel better than you, she will follow her feels and you can kiss that pussy good by. I should know iv done my fair share of valentines swooping.