Accepted myself

AncientScrolls · 2017-03-25T04:47:09+00:00

You do have control. I dont know your story but the way you talk it sounds like you are one of those guys with the loser mentality. If this is the case you should go back to the reddit depression forums so you can complain all you want with other cry babies how life is unfair and people and women are unfair with you. This kind of mentality isn't very welcome in the redpill community. Redpill community is all about accepting the harsh truths of our reality and how the world works and learning how to be successful in it.

Throwawaytodaytfp · 2017-03-25T06:49:00+00:00

I'm sorry that you've been dealt a harsh hand - there is a slight misconception that some people have and that is, discounting physical or mental health problems, we all have equal ability to apply effort but we don't all have equal opportunity to see the positive results - EG, if you're a young man of a certain ethnicity living in an area full of bumpkins that don't like you it will be difficult (though not impossible) to become a sociable, well-received guy because the variables are set against you and as such you can't gauge your own success/missteps because people's reactions are based on your person and not your actions.

You might want to check out my boy Charlie for some help with interactions - https://www.youtube.com/user/charismaoncommand

Don't accept misery, acknowledge it and force the change by any means possible.

SkullCandyDude101 · 2017-03-25T05:27:53+00:00

Watch these videos. Value seeking people will never be remembered. People who live a comfortable, safe, and oddly complacent life that avoids negative emotion will never be remembered. Fake it till you make it is your only viable choice here. The worst thing to do is to limit yourself to the capabilities you only think you can make. We can't give a fuck if you don't.

https://youtu.be/pZzSDgxTx0w

https://youtu.be/aE9QSuSxIMY

https://youtu.be/JAqPMO2wYUU

https://youtu.be/tx85yRRj-Tg

https://youtu.be/M3hLt4onAys

Glassland · 2017-03-25T10:28:09+00:00

There is peace in acceptance. But the other side of the coin is that you have chosen to give up. The ultimate victory is absolute self acceptance coupled with self-improvement.

Gettingaware · 2017-03-25T14:25:36+00:00

Holy terrible comments. Dont listen to people who think you're a quitter or this or that.

They dont see what you are saying because they cannot imagine a life without validation or straying away from the tribe. To them it means death.

Oddly enough what you are speaking of may sound bitter, and therefore "wrong". But nobody who ever accomplished great things in this life did so by trying to fit in. You are different, this is a good thing.

In time the bitterness will pass, and you will be wiser, you will not need to lean on others, and will learn to communicate be understood and manage relationships better.

Its good you found happieness and have learned to accept yourself, it wont just stick with you however. Its really something you constantly strive for by working on yourself and accepting others for who they are as well.

lonewolf-chicago · 2017-03-25T14:27:50+00:00

Try comedy.. i bet you would be great at it. Comedians are almost always the rejected.

I am serious.

yoda35 · 2017-03-25T05:48:28+00:00

that is why i am planning on moving to europe, much better life and people

Mangoinhand · 2017-03-25T15:24:22+00:00

Others reject you. Because you reject yourself.

Unless you are grotesque or hideously ugly, in which case you should save up or borrow money for serious plastic surgery

Title	Accepted myself
Author	JohnDontheman
Upvotes	4
Comments	21
Date	March 25, 2017 4:42 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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