askTRP looks very different from here. Why?

vandaalen · 2017-03-04T22:01:00+00:00

On there you have guys who say they've done everything (lifting, looksmaxing, etc.) and get nothing.

They are either lying or they forgot about the "etc." being equally important, like learning game.

You also have guys saying that men actually have a wall at 29-30 simply because the number of available women goes down.

We also have whiny brown guys and manlets which make up all kind if bullshit to justify their failures. So what's the point?

MattyAnon · 2017-03-05T15:48:07+00:00

Anyone want to shed some light here other than just saying "they're wrong"?

Most of AskTRP has barely dabbled in TRP. They haven't read the sidebar. They think "these guys know what they're doing, I'll ask for advice about this one girl and this one situation and this one thing that she said and then I'll go back to my usual gameplan".

abdada · 2017-03-04T21:14:21+00:00

AskTRP is composed of Redditors, many of which are in anger mode. Some of those permanently.

NihilistMonkey · 2017-03-04T21:45:08+00:00

Without specific examples it's just speculation. What I do know is that there is alpha and there is beta, and a giant chasm in between the two. A lot of people either wind up as MGTOW because they aren't willing to put in the work, or become paper alphas because they never fully internalize the mentality, and are going through the motions waiting for that payoff.

blackedoutfast · 2017-03-04T22:42:11+00:00

the world is full of tards

Your_Coke_Dealer · 2017-03-04T23:57:00+00:00

askTRP is a combination of betas not trying hard enough at self-improvement and game (i.e. liars and slackers), and men in the anger phase wanting something to blame for their problems.

In truth, success is hard work, and some people take more hard work to improve. Others work hard but their methods suck because they just don't get it, like someone who follows TRP to the letter, but doesn't understand exactly why they're doing things and how to adapt to a situation

circlhat · 2017-03-04T23:57:26+00:00

It's not that different, it's just people who ask question vs people who make statements, Honestly lifting, looksmaxing doesn't help that much, but rather a good PUA book and mindset will take you far

Booty_Canoe · 2017-03-05T01:55:43+00:00

On there you have guys who say they've done everything (lifting, looksmaxing, etc.)

But they never did, they just think they did and gave up. A smaller scale example is skinny guys who say they lift and eat a lot, but never get bigger, then you ask for their calorie and protein intake and it turns out, they just work out and eat too little.

You also have guys saying that men actually have a wall at 29-30 simply because the number of available women goes down.

That's kind of reasonable if you plan for kids and marriage (yeah, I know....). As a man, that's a perfectly reasonable age for thinking about children, both biologically and economically:

If you look in your own age group, motherhood is a risk, but they have both feet on the ground regarding their career. And fuck celebrity mothers and their late pregnancies. Their budget for medical special treatment is in no relation to your average Jane.
If you look for younger women, they might be in the perfect "birthing age", but tend to still be more ambitious for their career.

both these kind of posts repeat themselves from multiple posters.

It's an old meme, but... "It's almost as if reddit is made up of millions of different users, each with their own opinions,"

yomo86 · 2017-03-05T09:40:58+00:00

in my opinion there are many young men on askTRP who did not understood the sidebar. Which is fine, out of the window with the hurr-durr-TRP-I-am-longer-here-rooky-type, the first book on chemistry I read hasn't taught me jack-shit as well. Even if the information was solid.

Then you have guys who are the crux of TRP they know they did something wrong or did not apply TRP at all and want to hear the hive-mind confirming their warped and hamstered iteration of reality.

grewapair · 2017-03-05T05:10:34+00:00

There's no one size fits all formula, but what most women want is a handsome face. Period.

Having a handsome face is like having a 1. A really handsome face gets a 5.

A fat guy usually won't have a handsome face. If you lose weight, you might expose your handsome face. But if what's under isn't handsome, it won't really help.

Then there are zeros that go to the right of the 1 or the 5. 5'11 to 6'2", you get a zero to he right of your face score, so,with a handsome face you have 10 points. A really handsome face with height gets you 50 points.

Rich? Another zero. Buff body, another zero. Smart, funny, fun, dress well: more zeros, all to the right of your 1 or 5.

Now every woman has a list of deal breakers. They fall into two categories, fuck, and date. Some women won't fuck or date a man whose race is different from their own, they just aren't attracted. Some women won't date a man below a certain income level, but they'll always fuck him. Some women won't date below one height, won't fuck below another height. Some women won't date or fuck a guy over a certain weight. Obviously, at certain times of the month, a woman will relax her standards, so it doesn't hurt to try. When you hear stories of guys being dumped for richer guys, it's not that you can buy attraction, but they simply didn't meet the minimum for that woman to date them longer than it took to find someone who met the minimum. Money does not buy attraction, and being dumped for a richer guy does not disprove that. It proves there's a minimum that they didn't meet. Obviously there are exceptions to every rule here, some women are enthralled by money.

In contrast to the deal breakers, there's the list of things some girls are willing to use you for. A really high income, or super nice car, and some girls will hang around you just to use you. You can't buy attraction, but they might let you spend money in exchange for almost nothing more than just enough to keep you around. The women enthralled by money usually aren't that attracted to the guy, but they'll dump a poorer guy for a richer one. They'll then treat that guy like shit as time goes on.

But typically, a handsome face is a prerequisite for any girl above a 4. Below that, they take what they can get, but you usually don't want it. Everything else other than your face is merely a bonus.

So if you lift, dress well, be funny, fun and at least pretend you're rich, with an ugly face, you get zero billion points, compared to the zero points you had before. And that's why for many guys, it makes no difference.

It doesn't mean you shouldn't try. But without that face, or if you have a universal deal breaker, it's not really going to make any difference. Those guys have unattractive faces, or deal breakers: too short, wrong race, etc.

Title	askTRP looks very different from here. Why?
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Date	March 4, 2017 9:10 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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