This story is about my first blind date and some realizations I had about texting and confidence.

Two weeks ago messing around in my college class I told one of the cute girls (shes in a LTR) that she should introduce me to one of her hot girlfriends. Which she accepted and showed me a group picture of them.

“(Looking around, all hot) Just introduce me to any that is not in a relationship”.

She then gave me the number of this angel faced blonde with big blue eyes. Man I was excited. Told her to at least say something to the girl about her giving me the number. I read her friend´s text reply and she seemed interested. (My friend said the usual girl bullshit: he is a nice guy “insert my physical description” and wants to meet you).

I looked at the number for a couple of days and decided to call her. My mentality was to talk as If I had known her for years.

“Hi, I’m…. your friend’s friend.”

“Well hi there!”

“I know this is random but last week I was messing around with your friend in class and told her to introduce me to the most sympathetic of her friends. And you came up!”

(She laughs, teases and show goes on)

My goal was to invite her out in a short call.

“Next Friday we are going to have some wine around 9pm”.

She seemed surprised and enthusiastic then agreed.

That Friday I went to her house to pick her up. Thought about going out of the car and saying “hi” face to face but at the end it seemed try-hard so didn’t.

She comes in the car and she is indeed gorgeous. I’m more exited. Conversation goes fluent and her sense of humor is dancing salsa with mine.

I remember to tease and do kino to make things sexual. This is where I like to play around about what sports she does then proceed to tickle her arms and belly in a fun way saying something about how much fat she has. Its my excuse to start some light touching.

Then proceed to apply this fun games that raise the sexual level to the roof: - Eye contact game. First one who blinks or sees somewhere else loses. - Arm wrestling. Make fun of how STRONG she is. - Thumb wrestling.

If this all works well and she is being reciprocate towards my advances then I lay down the question:

“What do you like about me?”

She immediately said:

“That you called without knowing me and said what we were going to do. I liked that I didn’t had to think about anything, you said what the plan was and that’s it.”

Then it was time to go for the kiss. Tried couple times but she moved away smiling. I didn’t look offended or sad. I was paying attention to what she wasn’t saying: she was staying with a huge smile letting me touch her while I tried to kiss her. Maybe she didn’t want to feel like a slut or it was a shit test. Finally, the kiss happened.

Then I realized she was down since the day I called her and thought if I had texted her with some boring ass shit, as it usually ends up, none of this would have happened. It reminds me of how much value talking on the phone has and that many guys around me never do it. They prefer “safe” text game. I think its worthless. The less you talk by text the more you have to talk in person and the more confident you seem to be.