There's many things that are important after pursing a new LTR or adding a new plate to your china cabinet, but one of them is fucking a girl right the first time. It doesn't matter exactly when you do it as much as how you do it as long as you aren't waiting months or years for that hot pedestal pussy.

The first time with a new girl is an exciting experience. It's a new body to explore. A new temple to defile. And if it's not done right, it can really set you back. Here's a couple things that will set you apart.

  • Realize you are setting a precedent the first time you fuck. The sex will most likely get better, but make sure you don't strike out. Hit a couple foul balls, load the bases and then blast one over the fence. Whether or not she says or thinks she likes sex, she will subconsciously rule you out if you can't satisfy her in the sack at all.

  • Foreplay. Sex is a sport and like most other pursuits, you can't forget to warm up. Foreplay is critical. Plus it's fun and helps you gauge how tight she is. (Foreplay is a no brainer, but I included it anyway.)

  • Be dominant. Women like to be led. It's subconscious and usually goes without saying, but nothing turns a woman on like a man who can tell her exactly what he wants and then take it. Just make sure you follow through on your promises.

  • Confidence. To lead, you need to be confident in yourself. Not everyone is good at sex, but everyone can become a god in the sack if they work at it long enough. Experiences will get better and better. Just remember we all started somewhere. There is nothing to be ashamed of.

  • Manhandle her. Women like it rough. Don't be afraid to hold back. Part of being dominant is being as strong physically as you are mentally. Your strength signifies your ability to protect them and that is just as equally important in what a woman wants in a man. So make sure you convey your raw power.

  • Moderation. Make sure it's not all choking and spanking, you need some sort of gentle offset to keep her comfortable.

  • Be reserved. Make sure you're the less intimate one. Women crave attention. Give them too little and they can't help but come back.

  • Push her comfort zone, but make sure you support her along the way. You're her captain, make sure she doesn't drown or worse, start a mutiny.

  • Protection. Wrap it up, bro. Common sense, but so vital. If you're as good at sex as you are at other things, she will eventually want your seed. Don't be a dumbass, 18 years is a very long time.

  • Realize you probably won't be the first or last to bring her home on the first date. You're special, but not that special. I say this for myself as much as anyone.

  • Enjoy it. Sex is just as much about you as it is about her. Satisfy your own fantasies of course, but make sure you give her a good dicking before you ask her to peg you. You may be able to hold frame, but it's easier when that's not your first request.

Being the first guy to fuck a girl correctly will forever make you the standard. I don't know about you, but that excites me. I like the idea of forever revolutionizing her idea of sex. Long after I've forgotten her, she will cling to what I gave her.