This is why you don't get married. It doesn't matter if both of you are individually wealthy, or if a prenup is involved. When, not if, the divorce comes, she will use everything/everyone at your disposable to destroy you and take more than she was contractually obligated to receive. Already there are media reports making him to be the bad guy and her the victim in all this.

Now this guy is pretty rich, he's got a team of lawyers having his back, and I'm sure in the long run his career is will be untouched, but for the rest of you men out there, ya'll are fucked should you find yourself in this situation - as it seems not even a prenup can adequately protect you.

Bobby Flay is more than happy to pay his soon to be ex-wife Stephanie March spousal support ... thing is, she says it's chump change so she's fighting him. As TMZ reported the divorcing couple signed a prenup when they married in 2005. Sources connected with the couple and familiar with the situation tell TMZ ... the prenup provides Stephanie gets $5,000 a month for 5 years. We're told the "Law and Order: SVU" star is incredulous because her camp believes Bobby's net worth is north of $20 million, and Stephanie believes she was an important part of his success. And there's something even more galling to Stephanie. We're told the prenup provides Bobby -- who filed for divorce Friday -- the marital house, valued at around $8 million. The prenup only requires Bobby to pay her $1 million to buy her out of the house. She also gets $50k so she can pack up her stuff and move. Our sources say Stephanie's lawyers are challenging the prenup, and they're negotiating with Bobby's legal team. The likely outcome is a settlement where she'll get something more than what the prenup provides. = TMZ