When a man successfully spins plates, some fall and break. Actually they all break but thats another essay for a different time.

After years of synthesizing various PUA, RP, and Masculinity blogs, I have my go-to strategy for plates that are wavering and inevitably bust

I dont think I invented or even named the strategy but its so damn effective I wanted to share it because it greatly improved my game

It doesnt matter WHY she leaves you. You wont commit? She met better guy? Decided to munch rug? ....Whatever, let the betas analyze the chaos of female behavior

When you hit that terminal point and we all know what that point looks like, just say:

"I totally get it. I had so so much fun with you and wish you all the best. Bye."

Poof. Disappear from her life completely.

It may be 2 weeks, 2 months, or last month I had a one boomerang back after 10 months. You will get an innocuous text or email:

"I ran into your colleague Richard, it was so funny" or "That movie you and I saw was on HBO last night". It doesnt matter what she says.

I usually text right back and completely ignore the time lapse and am completely charming, witty, and funny in a cocky non-needy way

Example: a runaway single milf wrote me this a few weeks ago:

"Hi, i saw you at the supermarket earlier but didnt want to come by in case your better half was there"

"Hey, good to hear from you. You mean Miguel?"

"Haha, he must be the new face in your life"

The point is you cant be looking to punish Kittycat for running away. That accomplishes nothing and isnt the playful feeling that draws em back into the soft harem of a plate spinner