Breaking through the impossible wall

Radkin007 · 2017-09-06T09:05:52+00:00

Your wasting your time prospecting on friendzone hoes a better way would be to forget them and focus on new fresh meat. Doing that and banging a few of them out will increase your SMV baring you don't fuck it up. Read, "The Rationale Male" by senior Rollo Tomassi. It goes more into depth on FZ.

JamesSkepp · 2017-09-06T09:30:05+00:00

Yes, it is possible to get out of friendzone. There was even a solid PUA guide how to do that a few years back.

Let me tell you what WILL happen when you implement your idea (or even the PUA one) - you will spend x amount of time (say a year) during which you will up your game, lift, get more attractive. This in turn will make you more attractive to other women, and chances are many of them will be much hotter then your current oneitis. You will hookup with them anyway, on your "road out of friendzone" and eventually you might even "get the girl you wanted".

So, looking back, what did happen? - you raised your SMV, became more attractive, increased the number and quality of options you have - ALL that to get that "one special girl". IOW you became RP/player just to cultivate your oneitis.

This means that instead of making the effort to have more sexual freedom, you made effort to have less of it.

There's an old PUA advice - it goes like this:

"you have oneitis - GFTOW then come back and report if she's still that special".

Starter91 · 2017-09-06T09:22:41+00:00

In my opinion there is no such thing as friend zone, that's why i don't keep female friends. No point of developing bond with female if you later cant be in a relationships if you want, just no point. Old saying that men and women cant be friends is just spot on .

max_peenor · 2017-09-06T13:35:04+00:00

other women dont know if im fucking her or not.

Be careful with thinking like this. Women are way better at communicating than most men realize.

Sophrosyne100 · 2017-09-06T14:58:23+00:00

Yea when I realize a girl is putting me in the friend zone I block her immediately. It's basically their way of telling you they aren't attracted to you.

You shouldn't even want a chick that won't be attracted to you in the bedroom - no matter how ~~~~sPeciaL~~* she is.

mushroom_overlord · 2017-09-06T17:42:19+00:00

Why are you just friends, did you try something and she told you to back off or have you just rolled with it? If you haven't tried escalating the obvious move is to just do it and see how she responds.

Increasing SMV is always a good idea, but you have to actually put it to the test. Women rarely initiate unless the man is so attractive they feel like they are missing a chance, so its almost always on you to try something unless you are just a model-quality guy.

That said, if you're 18 and she's a freshman in high school she's what, 15? You're playing with fire if you try to fuck her, sure you both may be high schoolers but the law is the law if she does decide to later use it against you. I would move on to other seniors/college girls.

newName543456 · 2017-09-06T19:52:59+00:00

Maybe if you disappear for months and come completely changed.

But by then you should realize you could have someone else anyway and that girl was no special snowflake.

Peter_B_Long · 2017-09-06T20:55:57+00:00

You're 18 and she's 14. In my country that's a felony.

You have oneitis for this one girl obviously. Focus on other girls. If you truly believe that this girl actually improves your lifestyle by being your 'friend' then string her along but just be honest and aware if you have oneitis or not.

Mr-Ed209 · 2017-09-07T02:45:13+00:00

Raising your SMV is one thing and can work, but often the largest factor is how you have already behaved around her..

The problem with getting out of the friendzone is that the actions to do so are not what you want to do..

You got there because you believed in being nice and building a platonic connection before eventually entering a relationship with her. And you do that, because that is indicative of the relationship you wanted with her. A girlfriend/boyfriend dynamic whereby you're good friends and share all your feelings and it's all very soft and romantic.

The problem, obviously. Is that it doesn't work and that behaviour kills attraction within women. To get out the friend zone you simply start becoming aloof and try to initiate hang outs on your terms, at your place netflix n chill etc. Be assertive and sexual, make a move and don't stop to ask her if she likes you or any neediness like that. You remain aloof while still sleeping together until she enters your 'frame' and pursues you..

The problem (or benefit depending how you look at it). Is that this strategy kills your oneitis and forces you to view her as a girl willing to give herself up sexually to a man who treats her 'poorly'. That's the problem beta males have - they wan't to remain attached to the unicorn fantasy that they created and will selectively ignore reality.

Title	Breaking through the impossible wall
Author	Mi9937
Upvotes	8
Comments	17
Date	September 6, 2017 7:49 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/6ye8or/breaking_through_the_impossible_wall/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/breaking-through-the-impossible-wall.45809 https://theredarchive.com/post/45809

Comments