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We often wonder why when we communicate with a girl we tend not to be understood or they just don't understand what we mean. It can even happen that it's the other way around, that is, that her words don't make sense or that she's expressing herself in an inconsistent way.

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In order to fully understand how women communicate, I guess we have to refer to the basics, which are children.

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Between an adult man and a young child, there is a world of difference. In order to help and educate them in their journey, a challenge is necessary: communication.

Why?

- The child uses speech as a utilitarian medium

- It has an absence of logical thinking unlike the adult.

How do we communicate well with a child?

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  1. Speech as a utilitarian medium

The problem here, is that the child is unable to represent something, he doesn't have enough neurons inside his brain yet. There is a distinction between the utilitarian and communicative use of the external world of speech. One of the factors is related to the knowledge of representation, in other words he does not have the vocabulary to express what he wants to say. The other factor is related to the capacity of representation, it is abstract.

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So to describe his internal world, he will use games or drawings. What will help him is to represent in his head what he feels.

If we draw a parallel with the woman, what we deduce is that she does the same thing as a child. Indeed to communicate with her entourage, she will exclaim, get angry, say things without values, to attract attention or to say nothing.

The woman undoubtedly has the necessary neurons to express herself, but she does not use them properly.

How many times has a woman complained about nothing or to get attention. She has sulked for no reason or has become distant without explaining anything. The fact is that she may not be able to adequately express how she feels, so she communicates in a different way that is not always easy to grasp. It is therefore up to us to decipher this behaviour.

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  1. Lack of logical thinking

In the child's inner world EVERYTHING works with emotional, impulsive and fantasy thoughts.

He understands the world based on what he feels, it is in the immediate, here and now.

The association with women here is very clear and precise. Women have never really had it at a logical level, let's think about mathematics, how many of them are going to fill the benches of the social sciences because they don't contain linear algebra. They don't have logic.

Science suggests that the male brain is structured to facilitate action and coordination, while the female brain is more towards communication and intuitive processes.

Then, the female lets herself be controlled by her impulses and emotions, she stands out by her unusual states of mind. Everything is based on what they feel here and now, she changes her attitude in 2 seconds if she wishes.

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If you disagree with me, look carefully at the behavior of the females around you.

Opinion is so much the queen of the world that when reason wants to fight it, reason is condemned to death.

- Voltaire