Forget about getting the girl, focus on approaching. You will get rejected. You will feel approach anxiety. Focus on taking action.

The first few approaches will feel timid. You will even bitch out a few times. Focus on making the approach.

Something amazing happens when you focus on making the approach. You start to feel compelled to approach the women you want. This may take some time, but it will happen. You're gonna see a woman with some toned, silky smooth legs in short shorts and you're gonna feel compelled to approach her. This happened to me recently. I was at a Walmart and I passed by her and her friend. The whole time I was walking through the aisles I was thinking about how nice her legs looked. I was walking towards the other side of the store and I saw her and her friend ringing their items up. As they were leaving, I yelled out a "Hey miss" so she could turn around. I caught up to her and told her how nice her legs looked and asked her if she was single. She told me she wasn't. I told her to have a nice day.

I have gotten to the point where when I see a really attractive woman, I have to approach. If I don't approach right then and there, I will circle back.

Taking the direct approach helps you get really comfortable in your own skin. If you approach 30 women in 30 days, you will see huge spike in your confidence level compared to day one. That spike is so high that you would seem unrecognizable from your first approach. I did less than 100 approaches and I feel comfortable approaching women, telling them how nice their legs look.

If you talk to women and you feel very uncomfortable and not comfortable in your own skin, direct cold approaching will knock that right out of your system.

What are your thoughts?