I went out this weekend and was rocking my new found redpill'd brain and was high on life. I met some awesome people as I normally do, even before red pill. Everything was going well. I wasn't gaming too hard because I wasn't exactly trying to find a girl to take home I was just out to have some fun. (When I go out just to game I find I'm in the wrong frame of mind. and it doesn't go well.) I ended up winging my friend and he took a girl home. In the mean time though I was chatting up with a couple of girls and I got drawn into a debate, my kryptonite, and normally in the past I may have just backed down and given up to just keep the tone of the evening fun. This isn't what happened. I stood my ground and ended up winning the debate. Shortly after that, I was called arrogant. Then the girls I was talking to left, in a bit of a hissy fit.

This is just one specific story about me being called arrogant. It's happened before. Quite a bit. How would I go about toning it down and just going with confidence?

INB4: "don't debate", I know I fucked up but I was using it as an anecdote for being called arrogant.