Do any men here cry behind closed doors?

NormanMitis · 2022-05-02T20:57:58+00:00

Fucking cry if you need to cry. It's just stored energy/trauma and needs to be processed, you may as well do it in a healthy and productive way on your terms. There's nothing un-stoic about crying, in and of itself. It can be a healthy part of healing and just dealing with life some times. Cry a bit when the feeling hits you, process it and move on.

AureliusRed91 · 2022-05-02T20:51:52+00:00

If crying is part of your unplugging process then it would hinder you to not cry.

Crying is a form of acknowledging memories. When we dig into our past we can sort ourselves out in the present and become more aware. Women love men who are deeply-seated in the present moment, so sorting through our past is a must in most cases.

I highly recommend meditation and the book "The Power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle for an introduction to spiritual awakening.

ellipsis444 · 2022-05-02T21:01:37+00:00

Let is out, brother. C-PTSD is a real thing. Take care of yourself. No one else will.

TravisScottNL · 2022-05-02T21:09:39+00:00

Cry alone or with your dog , you will be alright bro. Things are too much sometimes let it out

Seven_Swans7 · 2022-05-02T21:09:49+00:00

Being a man means crying at the right time, ie not in front of people

ItsNotD · 2022-05-02T21:24:17+00:00

Nothing wrong with crying, everyone would actually encourage it.

Just don’t cry in public or around people as no one gives a shit and will see it as weakness - keep it to yourself (or for anyone else, a father/brother if you’re lucky to have one)

pappo4ever · 2022-05-02T21:33:56+00:00

You are not emotionally stunted. You have men emotions, and women always says our emotions are stunted, they are not, ours are different.

No I don't cry, not because I dont want to, I feel like shit many times, its just that we react differently to pain. Tears just don't come out anymore, exactly like you. I used to cry more when I was younger, with years it has become difficult, it's perfectly normal, thats how men's minds work.

One thing you never had to do is crying in front of other people, never, never ever do that. No matter how much they encourage you, its a trap.

alphaonthecomeup · 2022-05-02T22:33:26+00:00

I don’t cry often but a tear will shed here and there when the time calls for it.

It’s a form of release, let it out when you need to, but yeah do it alone

ImpressiveGiraffe94 · 2022-05-02T23:35:23+00:00

Only when I accomplish something I been trying to accomplish for a while

Andgelyo · 2022-05-03T00:00:44+00:00

It’s okay to cry, just not in front of women you are interested in

dxplq876 · 2022-05-03T00:17:40+00:00

Random rapid onset depression could be caused by eating something your body doesn't like

productrocket · 2022-05-03T00:23:43+00:00

No, I cry where I want. The moment you care about what others think about you crying you enter their frame. They think you're weak... Who gives a fuck? Read the 48 laws of power because this is simply one of the things you can use to keep people guessing and play up the mystery aspect. The important thing is to cry, process it, move forward, not dwell on it like a ballbag.

Title	Do any men here cry behind closed doors?
Author	atwitsend1996
Upvotes	14
Comments	13
Date	May 2, 2022 8:39 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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