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[–]1GroundhogLiberator31 points32 points33 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I've been with 10 women and I've had enough. Getting laid isn't worth the time, money, or the energy/stress it takes to constantly maintain frame in front of them.
[–]1empatheticapathetic4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Refreshing to hear. How old are you bro
[–]1GroundhogLiberator5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I'm 28. I wish I had this mindset at 18.
[–]1empatheticapathetic0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I'm 27, on 1 (an escort). Any advice
[–]lvl99jacked2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Never stop lifting and never stop reading.
[–]GR8AGN11 points12 points13 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Definitely understand where you are coming from. It's a normal reaction to being stuck in a routine. I get the same feeling with going to the gym, you get bored and start over thinking if you enjoy it or not (I've been going 5 days a week Olympic lifting for 3 years). Take some time off and work on other aspects of your life, I guarantee you'll miss chasing girls in no time at all and want to get back out there.
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
How do you find the time to accomplish anything else in life?
[–]Auphor_Phaksache15 points16 points17 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
He doesn't do anything else but slay puss 24 hours a day.
[–]DyatAss7 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Well my job takes up at least 8 hrs/day, commute 1hr/day, gym 1.5 hrs/day. After all that, I have very little free time.....I don't know how people with kids do it.
[–]RedDeadlift3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They sacrifice gym and sleep. Or keep an insanely strict schedule.
[–]Newreddawn6 points7 points8 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I burnt out too after about two years of hardcore chasing tail. I think it's normal to want to see what you're capable of with women, realizing in the process that they really aren't worth your time unless you are craving some strange.
I wouldn't pass up on easy opportunities, but you should definitely be focusing that energy on your career and your physique right now. That is absolutely the best use of your time and passion.
[–]Texas_Rangers0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
As a guy that never got any attention from women in undergrad, had beta personality and behavior, I kinda stepped out of the "game" and worked on myself. Studied for the LSAT, focused on school. I'm currently a law student, and I shouldn't be surprised that when women find out I'm a law student, it often catches their attention when I would be literally nothing to them before (I'm avg. looking, not naturally outgoing but getting better). Though it's not as much attention I'd get if I was a practicing lawyer. When I tell women I'm a law student 1/3rd show obvious interest, 1/3 show no interest, and 1/3 show interest until finding out I still have 2 years until I'll be done with law school. So about 1/3rd more women than would show interest in my earlier years. Some of this may have to do with my IDGAF attitude that has develoepd through the years also.
Anyway I'm really grateful for TRP. It's helped me learn how to hold frame and get attention from women as a average looking, avg. proportioned (5'10", 170 lbs) man.
I guess lesson here is played to your strengths. And another lesson while we're at it----- Like I said I'm average, but dress well and never apologize for anything (I always casually say how good looking I am even though I am objectively average--I would never say I'm average IRL---I'm a fucking 9.5 and fuck off if you don't think so). Whether you like Trump or hate him there is a lesson you can learn from him, he never apologizes for anything. Women say they don't like him, but do this-----go to twitter and search "sex dream Trump"---Trump is a 70 y/o man who makes women wet for him because he doesn't apologize for shit, is rich, and has power.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think this raises enough discussion issues that it is OK here rather than in asktrp. If you are just madly chasing pussy and pumping and dumping then of course it gets old. I suggest you concentrate on your career and mission in life. TRP gives a toolkit which allows you to maximise your SMV. So we have the options of plating, ONS, STR or LTR. You should never put women ahead of your goals or your mission. If you are wasting too much time chasing pussy and ignoring your mission, you may as well be playing video games instead of advancing your career.
[–]NYCSPARKLE3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Probably some seasonal affective aspects here, too. Do you live in a cold climate?
I always get fatigued with plates in the winter. When you start seeing girls in shorts and dresses romping around, you'll be back.
[–]bigtuna453 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've noticed that around November I get sick of approaching women. Around late March early April I am a ravenous tiger who wants to fuck everything he sees.
[–]DyatAss1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Minnesota, so yeah you could be right, everyone starts feeling a little depressed with the long winters.
[–]rigbed0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sex doesn't cure cabin fever forever
[–]Rocky99181 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I assume you're a very attractive man, that's an absurd number at 25
Honestly, it's probably just my height and the fact I don't look like a troll. The height thing is very odd to me, some girls have a borderline fetish for tall guys.
[–]1favours_of_the_moon1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Could be wearing down your yang qi. Sometimes you need to recharge, especially if you've seen a ton of action.
More commonly, what I find is dudes who get bored are giving it up TOO EASY.
[–]serael0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, when you get good there isn't the thrill anymore. At first the lack of challenge is nice because of near instant gratification, but after a while you don't value that which comes easily. I've talked about my experience in askTRP a bit about it. At this point I don't even go out to get laid; I'm beyond that. I go out have fun, and when I meet someone exceptional that I know will be a real challenge I go for it. That's not to say I won't take opportunity if it appears and I'm in the mood, but when I meet that hot woman with her shit super together and she sees me as some scrub, I love to prove her wrong and make her mine.
[–]DavoAmazo0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You need to figure out what your mission is.
[–]Lsegundo0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes. This has also been on my mind recently. I am older and my count is a fraction of yours. I want to find 2 FWB, an occasional date to wind new potential FWB (because you always need to keep your pipeline going) and then focus my energy on other things besides getting pussy.
After banging so many women how many do you even remember? I am guessing several of the best, a few of the worst, and the LTRs if their were any.
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