Don't Neglect Lifting/Athletic Prowess: Some Advice from a Gay (Bi) Guy

last_to_know · 2013-10-15T22:01:40+00:00

This is a good post. It's nice to have a slightly different perspective on here.

monsieurhire2 · 2013-10-16T01:31:43+00:00

"Being stiff in any way is bad, and if you think too much about posture and how you walk, you'll actually end up looking stiff and gay, as in, you'll look like a homo. It has to look natural, and the way you do that is by actually lifting well and engaging in genuine athletic exercise (martial arts, swimming, even dance can help) so that your posture will come naturally and you don't have to think about it."

Unfortunatley, if you have bad posture and bad postural awareness, there will probably be a transition period where you consciously correct your posture. Also applies to people who sit a lot as a job requirement.

No_disintegrations · 2013-10-16T04:14:24+00:00

Been sayin dis shit for years holmes ~

I concur ~

I'd consider at most a 5, but because he has a good physique and moves so gracefully in a naturally manly way, he moves up for me at least to an 8.

This is the part people need to read closely, it's not the beauty you attain in the gym that turns women on, it's the look of dominance and slow behavoiral changes towards dominance that are associated with health and strength in men, all aquirable to a certain level in the gym.

isthatyourdaughter · 2013-10-15T23:27:16+00:00

I think alot of guys shoot themselves in the foot by having the attitude that doing shit that makes them look more attractive to women is somehow "gay". Personally, I think beauty measures work the same way for men as for women- they make you look healthy and more youthful, which sends the unconscious signal that you are a more virile man.

Work out, get a tan, take care of your skin, get rid of that gnarly alligator foot look you got going, etc. Even "manscaping", maligned as it sometimes is, I fail to see a problem with it.

If you're doing something because it'll help you to get more pussy, then by definition, it cannot be gay.

mister_zd · 2013-10-15T23:40:06+00:00

I look younger than I actually am, I dont lift for medical reasons.

Gays find me attractive, its in the face. Some women admit to finding me attractive but I still dont get any from them. Whereas gay men just want to hump me and are not shy about it.

My main recommendation isn't really lifting in itself but knowing how to stand up straight, that seems to have bumped my attractiveness a notch.

Also, haircut, get a good haircut, not some shit buzzcut like everyone else, get something that works for you.

Take care of your health, avoid alcohol (I recently realized that alcohol actually made my face suddenly look older), rest plenty and relax.

redpill80 · 2013-10-16T10:03:25+00:00

I'm bisexual as well narcissus!

I think most men far underestimate their SMV. Men (and masculinity) are no less inherently valuable than femininity. In a different time, the entire mentality could be different- with the male body being seen as inherently beautiful and men having more value. I believe Greece and Sparta were like this.

Women want to feel overwhelmed by (true) masculinity. Sadly, most men in this society are total pussies. It's disgusting, and after dating some guys, I get why girls act the way they do- it's bad out there, real bad.

narcissus88 · 2013-10-15T21:46:28+00:00

lol who downvoted me? If you disagree with this, please say why.

Kepaso · 2013-10-15T23:34:22+00:00

it s true that i have a better posture since i'm lifting.

Archwinger · 2013-10-15T21:13:21+00:00

I'd classify how you move and your posture as components under the larger umbrella of body language, which is highly regarded as something very important. A dancer or martial artist is very conscious of the position of his body and how he looks when he moves and stands certain ways -- so the advice is sound. I just wouldn't go so far as to elevate posture and moving gracefully into a category all of its own.

frequentlywrong · 2013-10-16T05:22:21+00:00

Another thing that causes a dramatic positive change is martial arts. Real ones like MMA, kickboxing/muay thai, BJJ. It sounds crude, but it seriously affects your attitude. Knowing that you can handle yourself in a fight. Knowing you can kick most guys asses is a pretty big ego boost.

Liddell_and_scott · 2013-10-15T23:37:00+00:00

Could you give us an example of a five?

FeelingSassy · 2013-10-16T01:07:09+00:00

Good post! Interesting perspective and feedback! TBP's and SJWs will be having a shit fit that we are not fitting there frame by discussing this rationally and not lynching the ZOMG gay man!!!111oneone, baah feeling cynical atm!

parkitmister · 2013-10-16T16:50:39+00:00

Thanks for the great post.

My question isn't entirely related, but this sentence piqued my curiosity:

First a disclaimer, a homo's attraction to men will be primarily physical and visual, just like a straight man's attraction to women.

Do you care about height at all?

theVet · 2013-10-16T01:31:54+00:00

I think the takeaway is to invest in yourself instead of dedicating half of your life to a partner and neglecting yourself. After all that very same partner will like you more if they see that you value yourself and are trying to improve even more.

2013-10-16T05:05:48+00:00

Yes, being able to carry yourself with grace and being confident in your body are very good for appearing attractive. Falls under body language.

pontifx · 2013-10-16T06:39:19+00:00

Passive attractiveness is better than active attractiveness in my book. As I begin to take on these things (physique, style, infamy, and legacy) I see all to well the state changes in the females in my social circles.

A reasonable amount of game backed by those four things is god mode. Most girls repeatedly lust after those men and since those things are tangentially admired by men and ideas then they become paramount to pursue.

narcissus88 · 2013-10-16T05:04:41+00:00

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Title	Don't Neglect Lifting/Athletic Prowess: Some Advice from a Gay (Bi) Guy
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Date	October 15, 2013 9:03 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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