Dread Game.

It gets brought up here every day. Most of it is purely reactionary. People ask advice or field report about how Dread Game is changing their relationship/marriage. To you men, I say cheers.

But here is a part of dread game I don't feel is ever discussed enough. If you are in a relationship with one or several women it doesnt matter. The biggest key is to make god damn sure she KNOWS you are a hot commodity. This can be done in several ways.

Let her see how other women react to you. She needs to see that if she steps out of line, she is replaceable. Im not saying you have to go complete asshole on her, but when you're out, always be a little flirtatious with other women. be your cheeky self. Be fun, outgoing, and awesome.

Tease them in a similar fashion you tease her.

Touch them. Light kino, nothing over the top. If the girl you're plating, ltring, or married too is not a complete dumb-shit she will know how easily this can be escalated because you are an attractive, interesting and fun guy. I do this often with women when they wear jewelry, like rings or bracelets. Ill tell them to let me see it, and just hold my hand out. They will always comply. You just simply look at it, touch it, say what you want, and move on. If you do it properly, your girl will know in the back of her head that women are willing to comply with your requests, no matter how simple or complicated.

Let her see them flirt or talk with you. Always have your aloof, amused mastery game on, do not shy away from other women in a fear of your significant other seeing them flirt with you. Now this may cause a fight if your girl is insecure or dramatic. Hell, that might do you a favor so you know never bring her further long towards an LTR if thats your goal. You may also know she is jealous and wacky and might be worth dropping as a plate entirely because fuck it, its not worth the effort.

Keep an air of mystery about you. When you first start seeing a women, always remain distant and aloof until you are together. No mid day texts asking how shes doing, unless you are setting up logistics for later that night. Youre busy. And whatver you are doing during the time she isnt around will always remain a mystery to her. You could be doing ANYTHING. You want her hamster wheel to spin thinking about you all day. That means you have her where you want her.

Never confirm nor deny any of your sexual past. If it comes up, be vague. I have recently entered an LTR becasue I wanted to and my SO has shown very desirable traits that I enjoy. Im feeling it out. she asked about my sexual history. Ami clean, how many partners, etc.

My answer was simple:

I stopped counting a long time ago, and no, i dont fuck questionable pussy. Im 100% clean.

She followed it up with another question: Well when was the last time you were tested...

I replied:

"When was the last time YOU were tested???"

The question has never come up again. I was tested about a month before we began sleeping together, i was clean. But rather than bend to her will and promise i was clean, I just told her i was an didnt let it come up again.

The last thing is never let her presence in your life affect anything you do. If she springs up a random, im going to the mall, want to come with me? If you have no reason to be there, or it interferes with your hobbies, gym time, whatever, its a simple reply of:

"Call me when you're done."

Now these are mostly just personal anecdotes from my recent relationship. This is however, my first relationship i have engaged in other than plating women since I found TRP and started becoming the man I want to be. And I will tell you one thing, this girl is eating it up. Not one serious shit test. Not one bullshit antic. The one time she got worked up over bullshit, i left. She called me an hour later, saying how sorry she was and that she was coming over to "make it up to me". She hasn't even come close to being "out of line" since.

This shit works and Im eternally grateful for everything I've learned from you all. Any thoughts, suggestions, and discussion would be welcomed. Have a great weekend!