~ archived since 2018 ~
Popular
Other
whatwasthatcat
[removed]
[–]BudRock5624 points25 points26 points 9 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Honestly, I don't think swallowing the red pill will do much for you unless you have already been fucked over a couple times by bitches. In the case of the OP, he just hates women.
Virgins have no business trying to swallow the red pill.
[–]DocHancock3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wonder if OP realizes how retarded he sounds, go read some Rollo Tomassi man and maybe then "You'll just get it."
[–]zxcv772 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
As a 19 year old depressed kissless virgin incel browsing this sub every once in a while for a couple years, I agree to some extent. Almost all the advice here applies to people who regularly socialize with women. For friendless losers like me, all the advice will not cure our social anxiety and the Type 2 Autism that resulted from extreme lack of social interaction. Maybe by some infinitesimally small chance that I will make it someday, then all the advice would be very helpful, so I wouldn't say I've wasted my time. But for right now, all the advice, including about approving your appearance, is fucking useless. A bit over a year ago I was a skinny fuck at 6'2" 145lb and I have been lifting and bulked up to 185lb with almost no change in body fat, and I'm good looking too, but none of it fucking matters when I walk around with a fucking frown on my face. I can't even smile anymore. If I try to it looks fake because everything besides my mouth screams suicidal depression. I have had attractive girls say hi to me but I keep on freezing up and the only thing I say back is "hi" and one even laughed at me. On the extremely rare occurrence that I attempt to talk, the conversation ends quickly when I can't think of anything to say due to my Type 2 Autism. Thank god for escorts. They are my last resort if shit doesn't work out by the time I get older. If that doesn't help, then fuck, I don't know, I'll overdose on heroine or something. Just something to end the pain.
[–]Valentinus91715 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not everyone is born charming. But it is a learnable skill. Try reading 'how to make friends and influence people' by Carnegie. And practice your approach in front of a mirror.
It will not be easy since you are starting from a difficult place. But you have already transformed your body, so you have discipline. And with discipline, practice is possible. And through practice you can change yourself.
[–]Sumsar011 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There is no such thing as type 2 Autisme. Just go rant at someone and read "how to make friends and influence people". Talking is learned by doing. Just find a place where people like the same shit as you.
[–]Shadowduh1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Start with video chatting an online bro, it'll give you base for conversation and you can do it from home so you don't freak out. (I don't know if you are actually autistic or not but I know the frustration that stems from autism is very real and painful so take it easy at first). After you're comfortable video chatting try inviting somebody over preferably a bro, remember you're doing this for yourself no need to bring women around till you're comfortable and confident with yourself.
[–]zoinkface2 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Too many fucks given, Captain.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Man I can see where you're coming from. Been there, beginning to work through it. You need to stop thinking about what others think about you. Right now, if you're anything like me, anything you do is dependent on how others may or may not respond. If you can just figure out what it is that YOU really want to do, you can refer to this when making decisions. It can replace the area of your mind that is occupied by the negative thoughts.
[–]Merwebb0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Keep going dude. Pick a hobbie, join a traditional dojo, learn an instrument. Women can come after.
[–]BudRock560 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Whoooooaaaaaaa!!!!! Ha ha ha ha!!!! Someone hide all the sharp objects!!
That is one of the most pathetic things I have ever read! You are not Red Pill or blue pill. You are a fucking cyanide pill.
[–]BargainBinBoyfriend6 points7 points8 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
The thrill is in the hunt. This is like going lion hunting from the visitor side of a zoo cage.
[–]whatwasthatcat[S] 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If you turn a glass filled with water upside down, water will pour down. If you try to pick up girls, you will be successful commensurate with the alphaness of your body/social status/money. There is no surprise about it. Every guy is worth something in the fuckmeat market, and that solely determines whether he can get 3s, 4s, 5s, 8s, etc... For example, a guy who is skinny is not going to get 8s, he might get 3s, and the only "thrill" will be whether a certain 3 will go out with him or reject him, but this is a lame thrill because even if she rejects him he can just go with another 3.
[–]Arminarmeen2nd 5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Aren't men leeches for wanting to use women for their bodies? Multiple at a time? It goes both ways. You're just a fucking idiot who wants to take without giving. Your commitment is letting her walk with you on the path you are on. They are just children for fucks sake. Create a happy life for you, and then they will appear, and you chose who stays and for how long. And if they leave, fine, there's going to be another one.
[–]whatwasthatcat[S] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No because men are straight up, it is a transaction and those escorts just as equally want to leach off of you for your money, this is clear. Yet non-escort women try to hide their true intentions. Also, I said love doesn't exist in general, I never said it exists for men. But if anything, men are closer to showing love than women.
[–]douchetinc3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Lol! Way to hamster incelhood as a positive thing. You don't improve as a human being to get laid. You do it cos there's nothing else better to do. When you're awesome, people fuck you cos they want to, and they want to taste a little bit of awesome. Just get your shit together, and stop whining about bitches. I feel sorry for you OP.
[–]whatwasthatcat[S] 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Don't talk shit. As a guy, it is very hard to be sexless. I am happy with myself. The ONLY aspect of my life I am unhappy about is the part which involves, females, or lackthereof. Seeing as how consent is required, I have NO CHOICE but to work to be the guy that will enable consent to be given by girls. So don't blame this on me.
[–]douchetinc0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So, your solution is to blame girls for not wanting to fuck you? Just because you're happy about yourself doesn't mean you're fuckable. A toothless meth addict can be happy about himself too. You should be glad that no one is fucking you, because it seems that it's the only motivation you currently have for improving yourself. If you can't even get a basic bitch to like you, what in the world can you do?
[–]simplisticallysimple1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're right. Getting laid in itself should never be a long-term goal, but the fact that you can even get laid by your own volition proves that you have your shit together, which is important in life. The man who's reduced to inceldom or paying for sex obviously has clear problems with his life that he's trying to mask by hiring a girl to pretend to like him and make him feel better.
[–]prodigy2throw2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're an idiot. Get some real world experience with women then post here. Til then take it back to incels
[–]Throwawaysteve1234562 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Being around women can still be fucking awesome man, you just need to know their limits. Don't buy into the disney love story, and keep your guard up, and have fun. Are you considering an escort as a replacement for sex? You'll spend a lot more money than if you have decent game, and the sex will be mechanical and shitty. When a girl wants to fuck your brains out they do all sorts of crazy shit, while an escort will do it out of obligation. This would be similar to LTR relationship sex after your gf thinks you're a total chump and appeases you with sex once a week. Best of luck man.
[–]Ass-a-holic2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Actually your post makes a lot of sense. I've been with 33 different women/girls from age 19-34 years old. For the past few years I've only payed for sex and have been pleased with the results.
Your totally right about women only being lustful or users. Back when I was 22 (30 now) I was in incredible shape due to a highly physical job and working out 2 hours a day, my body was great. My old roommates girlfriend thought I was a huge dork (I was/am) and she seemed to hate me. However, once I took my shirt off for a game of bball one time she changed completely, laughing at all my jokes and getting very touchy with me.
I was sitting on the couch one day, me and her only, she came over and layed right next to me, rubbing her butt on my leg. We ended up fucking on the couch and than off and on for a few weeks in her dorm room (my roommate was a huge asshole so I didn't feel bad about it).
[–]mastprop2 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
stop typing and just fuck lol its not hard
Lift, cut the carbs and up your fat/protein. Hit the thrift and get some decent clothes.
Then make a Tinder account and be shameless.
Losers make excuses.
Winners make it happen.
Just do it.
[–]DatingCoach1111 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Men and women fall in love for different reasons. It is true; woman falls in love with the way man makes her feel, and not the man himself. True male love for a woman, however, is not necessarily unconditional, but loyal to a fault. TRP and RPW (Red Pill Women) is a symbiotic system designed to create realistic expectations in regards to the opposite sex. You can still fall in love, enjoy it while you can, but be consciously aware of her hypergamous nature, and never expect her to stay faithful. No expectations means no disappointment.
[–]4nt43us1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Women have plenty to offer you fucking idiot... you think the human race survived this long because of man only... lol
Instead of facing the truth, which is that you are failing as a man and need to improve yourself in order to attract women, you are trying to justify in your mind that women are worthless and remove any effort required to improve yourself.
[–]whatwasthatcat[S] 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wrong. Women have nothing to offer other than vagina. Why do you think there are all these couples? Why do you think men put up with women? Due to vagina or wanting a kid. That is literally the only "benefit" in a cost/benefit analysis over whether to stay single or get a girlfriend.
[–]simplisticallysimple1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Bla bla bla, sour grapes...
Is this really how you rationalize to yourself that you're not a loser for needing to resort to paying a woman just for them to pay any kind of attention to you? No matter what you say, you can't change the fact that there's nothing more Blue Pill or desperate -- nothing that pedestalizes pussy more -- than to literally bribe a woman financially to give you her pussy.
Hiring an escort is beta as fuck, the ultimate white flag in a man's sexual stratergy, and you know it. In your case, it's your only option too (as is very common of guys reduced to the commercial sex route), since you're admittedly a virgin. It doesn't even count; it's nonsense and completely antithetical to self-improvement.
How the fuck do you people even hamster the use of prostitutes as something Red Pill/alpha? Jesus Christ
Edit: we improve ourselves, because it's what men do. We adapt to the world, we work hard, and we achieve our goals. And getting laid isn't the goal. It's simply a by-product, a symptom of a successful man. If a man can't get laid (or worse, trying to reframe his inability to get girls as something positive), it only shows that he hasn't got his shit together. And that's what makes you a loser, not the act of hiring a hooker per se.
[–]Brotagonism points points points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
It's posts like this that make us as cringe-worthy as any fanatical shrieking feminist, just on the opposite end of the spectrum. Stop being a frothing retard, the right woman can be wonderful company.
I agree that the right woman exists, but she is about 1 in a 100. You will be disappointment if you actually expect to meet one of these women during your life. You have to be prepared to interact with the 99% instead.
[–]Senior ContributorSkorchZang0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
That's that same disease as when Richardson from work got a sweet Porsche but you're too good for that, Porsche is logically for losers who have something to prove. His dick is probably tiny so he needs a Porsche- loser.
Drive that degenerate shit out of your head with fire, and cauterize the wound man. You almost entered the anger phase (good, and way better than depression/apathy phase), but unfortunately slipped into the Porsche disease side ditch.
Good for you Richardson, you lucky bastard.
[–]Utterberetacht0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Be like a Ragdoll cat when with women. Keep playing and DGAF, and walk away when it’s no longer enjoyable.
[–]IblizTrigga0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
they want to use you
The harshest truth I have had to swallow, in my entire life, was accepting this as reality. This doesn't apply to just women, this applies to EVERYONE.
For a long time, we are fed this fantasy of friendship just being a connection between two people with a common interest. The reality is that friendship is a relationship of mutual benefit. The friendship will not be established if one party does not see any benefit, end once one party no longer benefits, and become one-sided/"abusive" if one party benefits more than the other. It's a bit like Briffault's Law, but in more general terms.
Men are also subject to this. When a man establishes a relationship with another man, it is one of mutual benefit (a source of entertainment). The key difference between male and female relationships is a matter of perspective, men having greater foresight than women. A woman will terminate the relationship if there is no immediate benefit, whereas a man will likely hold on to the relationship believing in future benefit (mostly due to the history of benefit).
With this in mind, people "using" you for personal benefit is great as long as you are "using" them for equivalent personal benefit. In the same way, there's nothing wrong with women using you (for sex or favors) as long as you are also using them.
[–]whatwasthatcat[S] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
In the same way, there's nothing wrong with women using you (for sex or favors) as long as you are also using them.
True, but then it can't be love.
[–]IblizTrigga0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Unconditional love is fantasy, conditional love is reality.
[–]MisterRoid0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree that women are for sex (and breeding when you want sons). However, the quality of the sex is usually better when the woman is attracted to you and not just doing it for the money. Most prostitutes in the European world won't have unprotected vaginal sex, and many of them won't even suck your dick without a condom. If I pay for sex, I want a blowjob ended with cumming in the girl's mouth at the minimum. I rather jerk off than use a condom, so I would never pay for anything that involves using one.
Thailand is a different story on the other hand. I have never been there, but I have read that it's standard to have bareback sex and that some of the working girls will even get pissed off if you want to use a condom. If I was an old man retiring with my affairs in order, I would definitely settle there.
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.created by /u/dream-hunter
[–]BudRock5624 points25 points26 points (10 children) | Copy Link
[–]DocHancock3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]zxcv772 points3 points4 points (7 children) | Copy Link
[–]Valentinus91715 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Sumsar011 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Shadowduh1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]zoinkface2 points [recovered] | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Merwebb0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]BudRock560 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]BargainBinBoyfriend6 points7 points8 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]whatwasthatcat[S] 4 points5 points6 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Arminarmeen2nd 5 points6 points7 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]whatwasthatcat[S] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]douchetinc3 points4 points5 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]whatwasthatcat[S] 1 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]douchetinc0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]simplisticallysimple1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]prodigy2throw2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Throwawaysteve1234562 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Ass-a-holic2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]mastprop2 points [recovered] | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]DatingCoach1111 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]4nt43us1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]whatwasthatcat[S] 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]simplisticallysimple1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Brotagonism points points points [recovered] | Copy Link
[–]whatwasthatcat[S] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Senior ContributorSkorchZang0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Utterberetacht0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]IblizTrigga0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]whatwasthatcat[S] 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]IblizTrigga0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]MisterRoid0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link