Everybody is shallow

dumbkidaccount · 2017-07-02T09:54:10+00:00

This post is written desperation all over

MisterKissBang · 2017-07-02T21:55:27+00:00

This post is full of bad advice.

With girlfriends - Stop expecting any kind of deeper spiritual connection, love, understanding, compassion.. or anything unconditional.

Sounds like someone who never had a quality LTR.
I don't believe in unconditional love, but a quality woman WILL love you, understand you, and support you.
Of course, it's conditional of her perceiving you as a quality man.
Than again don't we want quality women too?

With parents - They want you to be a robot-like stand-up citizen

Parents usually want what they perceive s best for you.
It might not be what IS best, but the intention is there (no talking about fucked up parents here).
Studying is for yourself, not your parents.
And chores... Well if you can't do a couple of chore for the people who wiped your ass, put a root over you and fed you for years...

In job interviews - never be honest, always paint the best picture of yourself that's believable.

No.
Be honest WHILE presenting the best picture of yourself.

With 'friends' - Stop trying to discuss anything 'deep' or 'philosophical', because they will always try to roast you and never really give a shit about your theories.

Sorry dude, but you don't have real friends.
Obviously, not everyone is going to listen to you all the time, but you should be able to discuss deep things with at least one friend.
Everybody has their thresholds.
When my best friend broke up, I listened and tried to help as much as I could. It was hard because I was getting annoyed of hearing the same stuff over and over again.
I did my best, and now he's thankful.
But I think he could have understood if at some point I would have told him "bro, I can't deal with the negativity anymore".

Conclusion:
Your advice is shit.
You sound quite immature. It's ok I guess if you are a teenager.
But if you are an adult, you have some catching up to do on life.

vengefully_yours · 2017-07-02T16:58:32+00:00

Holy fucking shit balls. This one has me laughing my ass off.

Kid, shut the fuck up. Are you trying to be the epitome of an omega? Because that is exactly what you described. The reason people treat you how they do is because you're pathetic, nobody respect you, and you acquiesce to them eagerly. You have nothing deep about you, you're focused on trying to make everyone like you.

You're doing it wrong. Everything about what you said is wrong.

Here's the fucked up part. You are exactly the demographic we are trying to reach, so you stop being a whiney bitch mangina and act like a man. You're preaching the mangina dialogs, touting out to be the pinnacle of human development whilst setting yourself as above everyone else. You're not. You've been told how wonderful you are your entire life, in an effort to build your self esteem. It didn't work, because you build self esteem by actually doing something arduous, not simply existing. You're trying to live the life of a girl, a hot girl no less, and other than the way you think, you're anything but.

Read the fucking sidebar and shut the fuck up

TheLoonyDuck · 2017-07-02T11:24:05+00:00

shower them with gifts

LOL wtf that's blue pill af dude

Skizzy4325 · 2017-07-02T09:26:50+00:00

TL:DR: Conform. Be a nobody.

And my reply is get fucked. I'd rather a handful of friends with a capacity for expansive thought over a plethora of vapid mouth-breathers

mushroom_overlord · 2017-07-02T10:00:13+00:00

I think you have a point on the job interviews and maybe work in general (if employed by another company). Otherwise, if you want to live your life this way be my guest, but I certainly won't be any woman's source of jewelry and I'll gladly get roasted by my friends because they know I can take a joke or jab.

fetchyminx · 2017-07-02T18:39:47+00:00

You must have really shitty friends if you can't discuss anything deep or philosophical with them..

tweetybirdy69blazeit · 2017-07-02T19:07:54+00:00

This is the surest way to mediocrity.

LMStheory · 2017-07-04T05:44:46+00:00

OP nobody is giving you props for this post but I want to give you props for this thread because I think it is on point in every respect. It's exactly true, and I'm sure there is something from the book how to win friends and influence people that is similar to this philosophy. It's simple but just appeal to other people's needs and listen to them. However articulating it the way you did by putting yourself second is a very redpill way of looking at it yet the most accurate.

One time at a job interview I was honest and said the truth about that "what is your weakest attribute" question. It was instant rejection but yet should it have been ? Humans act purely on shallow reasoning now and don't see the slightest bit of morality in a world lends based on DHV systems. At the end of the day your respect in this world is gained only by how high of value you rank and mystery got this right and that's about it. Don't bang women ? nobody respects you, male friends, even your family. People want to hang around winners to bring their value up. Can't lie and be convincing ? Your not someone worth while.

This is one of the downfalls of a winner take all society. An interesting perspective recently on North Korea defectors , is that only thing they miss about it is the nature of the people were different and not judged based on your value as in capitalistic societies. That is one thing we perhaps have lost.

jerseymayan · 2017-07-04T08:53:06+00:00

I swear this red pill subreddit is getting blue pilled as of late.

All RP'ers will eventually go MGTOW.

aanarchist · 2017-07-02T18:52:24+00:00

why would you compromise yourself for the sake of other people liking you? that's a committed beta's choices. i talk about what i want to talk about with my friends, if they don't like it they can find someone else to hang out with there's no skin off of my back. if the people at the job don't like my authentic personality, then it's not a job i want because i am not an office drone, i am a free man, a leader and an innovator. parents...fuck off with that. girlfriends...same.

mikesteane · 2017-07-02T11:32:21+00:00

My experience is otherwise. Under certain circumstances, which are not part of everyday life, most people will reveal unsuspected depths. It's just a matter of creating the right circumstances. But don't expect much depth from casual interactions.

alexclarkbarry · 2017-07-03T02:59:44+00:00

Talking "deep" means talking about things that make money, you want people you can talk "deep" with because having those people around sets the stage for large financial success. Now tell me how are "deep" talks that make you lots of money bad?

OutrageousSalmon · 2017-07-03T21:31:08+00:00

I have to thoroughly disagree with pretty much everything you wrote. Try again.

Hikage-best-knaifu · 2017-07-02T18:04:25+00:00

Wat? Be as selfish as possible. Obviously you should adjust this if you have some greater goal in mind but generally this is what you should do. Showering your LTR with gifts? Having an LTR in the first place? Bruh.

MrAnderzon · 2017-07-02T21:52:35+00:00

This reads as one of those post on what not to do

Title	Everybody is shallow
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Date	July 2, 2017 9:15 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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