I have a very typical relationship story. It probably follows the same pattern that 90% of realtionships in this country follow. About 5 months ago, 4 years into my relationship my girlfriends attraction to me was noticeably disappearing. At this point something unusual happened. I found out about redpill and after four months of reading, things finally started to become clear as day. My girlfriend had little to no attraction to me because my “oneitus” or my “obsessive love” for her turned me from an awesome attractive alpha into a supplicating beta.

Gratefully, a good friend put me onto red pill and I was able to see the light. One article in particular helped me apply redpill to my relationship. This article helped me see that redpill theory needed to be applied to save my relationship or my manhood. The article was http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/08/14/relationship-game-week-a-readers-journey/ about dave from Hawaii. Dave’s marriage was scarily just like mine. His betatude was making his wife disgusted with him. He began acting “redpill” and his fd up marriage began looking like an ideal one. This sparked me to apply redpill theory to my relationship in full force.

The results were astounding. The first practice I put into my relationship was a simple one. I believe in the “book of pook” I read that a mans power in a realtionhship is time, and a womans is sex. So I was upfront with my girl and told her “listen, if you want to spend time with me, you have to be nice to me. You have to desire me. If you do, we will spend a lot of time together and our relationship will blossom. If you are mean or disrespectful, or undesiring, I will not spend time with you and our relationship will dissolve”. This was hard for her to swallow. I had been such a beta after falling in love with her (almost two years after we began dating, about 1.5 years after she told me she loved me) that this alpha style attitude was shocking to her. Shocking is exactly what our relationship needed.

She did not react well to this. She kept up her bitchyness so I kept up with ignoring her and not spending time with her. This eventually led to her stating “I don’t even know if I want this relationship any more”. (this is where the beta me would have begged and pleaded her to not say such things, to see my love and let it in her heart, I would beg her to love me. But I am the alpha me now) so I replied “ok then, im done, this relationship is over, you can stay in the apartment for a week or two until your find a new place”. Expecting the old beta me to beg her back, this alpha response really really upset her. After (unsuccessfully) trying to convince me to let her have the apt and to move my stuff out, she realized I wasn’t budging and that I was seriously done with her. Ready to move on to the plethora of women that would be lucky to have a guy like me. She wept and cried, and moved her shit out. I didn’t care. The old beta me woulda been feeling sorry for myself, woulda been begging for her love, woulda been making her ever more unattracted to me. The new alpha me – didn’t give a fuck and was excited to get some new tail. She noticed this.

Sooo long story short, I went out and had the time of my life on Saturday, she stayed at her friends and probably cried all night. Sunday morning went exactly how all the “redpill” reading told me it would. She was blowing up my phone and begging me to take her back. I let her back into the apt because I wouldn’t put her out on the street and I still did have hope for our relationship. But this time things will be different. There will be no more betatude coming from me, only alpha. And her panties have never been wetter for me

tl:dr be a beta and loose your attraction in women. be an alpha and keep her panties wet