Intro

Stereotypes are stereotypes for a reason. They seem to hold true in a large percentage of cases and it is relatively safe to roll with that stereotype until proven otherwise. I won't state any of the common racial stereotypes, but I'm sure you guys know plenty. I'll focus on ones pertinent to the sub. I'm sure you've heard some, and some people will say I'm a dumbass and that it's a true stereotype 99% of the time, but I'll lay them out and let you decide.

Body

For formatting purposes I'll lay out the stereotype or common thought and then post my rebuttal.

  1. The hardworking nerd wins in the end.

This is a common theme especially in traditional households (Asian Indian, and I'm sure other households too). You work hard and get A's and become a doctor or lawyer and it all pays off. Hard work is fantastic, but without social skills you're fucked and a lot of these guys are lacking. Some will make it very far. Most won't.

On the flip side. The rich kid in HS with the bad emotional problems who barely managed to get into a large party school thanks to a donation by dad will join a kick ass fraternity. Get laid a lot and graduate with a 2.0 GPA. He'll land a sweet job as a financial analyst or something like that thanks to good connections and will become that nerds boss.

  1. Hot girls are shallow and dumb.

This one is true at times, but a lot of times as well girls like this come from good financially stable families. They get them involved with plenty of things. Beauty Pageants, Cool vacations, and just random interesting things. Usually these girls are more interesting than most because they've done so much shit. Personally I think their more fun to talk to and usually keep their mouth shut. Even the hot girls that use their looks to score free booze or drugs off of guys. That level of manipulation to get what you want doesn't make you a good person, but I still think it's interesting. If they roll too deep in that stuff it fades, but these girls are insanely self conscious so they have a much better fitness regiment and diet than other girls as well (if they want to stay sexy).

  1. The guy that gets laid a ton is super confident.

Again this one is true at times, but a much larger number of the cases these guys are insanely self conscious and things just look smooth and great from the outside. Including myself, out of the 6-7 or so friends I have that really get laid a lot maybe one is just very self confident. They know they are attractive, but a lot brings them down. For example, on the rare occasion when I meet a girl I just really genuinely like (She's attractive, cool personality, and we just click) I get really excited (I don't show it), and if something happens or she doesn't text me back the next day I legitimately get very bummed out. I'll turn other girls down. I pretty much just fall off the radar or I go out on a bender until I feel better. One of my friends had something similar happen and he didn't eat or workout for 3 days (He's a huge meathead). I have other examples, but you get the point

  1. Life is fair in some way.

Fuck no it's not. There are guys who were born with money, looks, height, and a fat piece of meat hanging between their legs. They put in 1/10 the effort and get 10X the results compared to you or me. It sucks. No point bitching about it.

There are girls who are just gorgeous. They're also nice and won't ever have to work for anything in life if they don't want to. Don't be mad at her for it. Life's just not fair.

  1. Karma

This is just a load of shit. You can be nice your whole life and a dog could just maul you're salami and you could just fall into depression or some other bad stuff could happen. The guy who was a total meanie could end up with 10/10 great wife, have 2.2 children a white picket fence and a couple of mistresses on the side. He was a big bully his whole life and his whole life will be pretty awesome. Karma isn't real.

Conclusion

There are more out there, but this is a good start. I know guys don't like hearing this stuff, but it's important to know. The whole point of this sub is to break out of the happy reality. Sexy girls sleep around in their 20s and still find a cool guy and get happily married. She's not miserable. SOME are miserable and get divorced, but believe it or not some live happily ever after.

PS. I just reposted this because of a very poorly worded title