3 month redpiller on my second night out alone at the bars (I identify as a sigma so as a beginner I decided to refine my solo game). At my first venue of choice I’m enjoying a drink and watching soccer when someone sits down next to me. As a pretty heavy introvert I’ve been attempting the habit of talking to as many people as possible, even if the intent isn’t to pick up (most solo guides I’ve read have recommended this). The person to take a seat next to me is a woman roughly ten years my senior and not much to look at but I strike up a conversation because why the hell not. About five minutes into the conversation she begins to lay some heavy shit testing on me, constantly calling me smug, pretentious and a horrible actor (on account of the way I carry myself more so than the things I had said up to that point). Throughout the entire bombardment I held my ground very casually, even comfortably agreeing and escalating her accusations even more.
Her: I can tell by your eyebrows that you’re really pretentious.
Me: Blame my genetics, not me.
I’ve been shit tested before, but never to this extent so it was a great scenario to test my limits even if I had no intent on gaining her primal interest. When all was said and done we were both laughing, had come up with nicknames for each other and were continuing our general conversation as we did initially before I paid my tab and took off to the next bar.
The Lesson for fellow beginners:
No matter how heavy a woman lays shaming/shit-testing on you, stand your ground confidently (even if it seems you’re being absurd and inflating your ego too much). Even if it’s with someone you have no interest in banging you’ll earn their respect for being someone who’s really comfortable with himself.
[Edit] Wow in response to the hate comments, what the fuck is wrong with you guys? Are you really so simple-minded that you think that everyone who frequents this sub is on the same level of experience and knowledge?
There are barely any people I can discuss redpill theory with in real life because they're either still romantic idealists, feminazis or have given up on living life and bettering themselves. I may not have amazing stories yet as a beginner but I have no shame in sharing my experiences and revelations with this sub so fucking deal with it. If you don't like it hide it from your feed.
[Edit - The Sequel] Thanks for the encouragement guys. Posted this while having a bad day at work so I kinda hulked out after seeing that shit, concerned more would follow. I'll keep you all posted on the highlights of my lone wolf ventures.
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