My backgroud: 24,m, (somewhat) in shape, 1.84 m (sorry that's how we mention height in my country), 66-68 kg (again, how we mention weight in my country).

Setting: co-worker calls me to his birthday party (he's 30). We're not really close but we had some nice chats from time to time and went for a few beers.

Go at party: me, him, 2 girls: 1 vegan -> clearly a "NAY" coming from me based on how skinny she was and what conservative mentalities vegans generally have (please don't delve into this subject, it's not the point) but I do keep her in mind for my plan; 2nd one was a cute redhead that was around 1.60-1.65 m height and (I guess) 55-60 kg -> in shape.

Her pluses: seems very chatty and likes to have fun, has 2 really nice tattoos (she's one of the few gals that I've met that have tattoos; yes, I know, it's because I don't hang out a lot).

Her minuses: small chest, in shape because of diet, not because of workout (relatively skinny legs and hands), likes to talk -> a double edged blade but I will use this to my advantage, the two front teeth are forward oriented and have a gap between them (main minus from my point of view) but not obvious unless she's smiling a lot/ laughing a lot.

As the night begins I sit quietly and assess the situation: is this worth it? I gobble down a beer while I listen to them chat (they're friends and I'm somewhat of an "intruder" so I'm building courage and trying to find context for conversations).

I break the silence by speaking sparsely with my co-worker, then to the redhead about her tattoos and life and college and...etc.

Conversation is going nicely and she feels comfy talking about herself. BAM! I switch my eyes and my attention to the vegan. I start asking her why did she chose that lifestyle, how it is, small facts about her life. Redhead is slightly affected but quickly brushes it off.

I keep applying this push-pull tactic for about 2 hours. By this time I've already had 2 beers and 2 glasses of wine. The redhead seems to want to keep up with me when it comes to drinking -> she had (relatively) just as much.

By now we reached my co-worker's apartment to play "Mime" and drink some more. I'm sitting on the bed together with the vegan and the redhead is sitting on a chair next to the bed. I'm well aware that I've drank quite a bit so any mistake I may make will be well covered by this. I reach out and start drawing random lines on her thigh with my index finger.

She almost immediately looks at me with a somewhat confused face. I smile and keep going. After a few minutes, I let other fingers join it. A few more minutes and I decide to pull her chair closer. The co-worker and the vegan notice but they play dumb (thanks guys for doing that or else she might have felt peer pressure!).

I pull her closer and tell her that I want her to sit next to me on the bed. She asks me why? I told her "because that's what I want". She doesn't answer; I ask again; she says after it's her turn to mime; her turn comes and when she's done she goes in the chair again. This frustrates me and almost makes me break back into beta attitude ("give up bro, she ain't willing!"). Thanks to the alcohol I decide to "fuck this shit I wanna win!": next time it's her turn, she reaches again for the chair, I grab her hand and pull her on the bed. She looks at me and smiles with a small glimmer in her eyes (I presume she's again scared of our peer's opinion -> again thank God they just pretended nothing happened).

She's now next to me on the bed. My previous victory (no matter how small) boost my ego so much that I almost instantly start increasing the kino level sky-high: first 5 minutes after she's next to me I go for caressing her back with my hands; then 5 minutes of doing it under her shirt; then 5 minutes with her tummy; and I even decide to pass by her bra quickly. She doesn't seem to mind it at all.

She's really drunk at this point (before judging me, keep reading on). Our co-worker didn't do anything with the vegan and either he had stuff to do in the morning or was too envious of me, but he decided that we all should leave. (this was about 30-45 minutes after she decided to sit down next to me -> my actions didn't cause it) He and the vegan leave the room to get their coats and shoes; she starts to rise from the bed but my confidence is already rock-solid -> I grab her by the hand and pull her back; I lean over her, with my left hand I direct her face towards mine and kiss her. She likes it and kisses me back. (!yay!)

Redhead is laughing and wobbling when she walks. She tells us that she wants to have more fun -> I offer to stay with her in a club. Co-worker drops us off at a club, we dance a little, we kiss some more, I feel her up some more. She's already moaning when I touch her. I'm drunk also but I wanna test boundaries more and test more TRP stuff. She has a moment when she wobbles a bit too much and I catch her from a fall; she looks sick and asks me to take her home -> "ok let's go". (I'm not irresponsible)

On our way I want more -> I push her against the entrance to a flat and start seriously kissing and feeling her up, I raise her shirt to see the prize -> she blushes and smiles but doesn't shake me off; she even likes it when I play with her tits.

"The man leads in." right? We reach a darker side of the street with a bench. I suggest we take a break from walking; we kiss some more and I tell her to touch me -> she starts touching my chest and belly. I tell her to go lower but she doesn't go lower than my waistline -> I take her hand and put it over my zipper. She doesn't retreat and knows what to do; I tell her to put her hand in my pants and she agrees reluctantly.

I tell her to tell me "I want you to fuck me!" and she says it. She gets on top and we grind a bit. The setting is perfect; all I have to do is unbutton her pants and mine and we're good to go. I decide this ain't the way to do it and that I didn't really get the girl since she's drunk -> I tell her we gotta stop. (was I a beta?)

She's visibly disappointed and tells me that she wants to fuck now. I tell her that we can meet tomorrow and continue where we left off. She said she's not sure if she'll want the same thing in the morning. We get up and continue walking; she's not pissed at me since we kissed along the rest of the journey and felt eachother.

While walking she asks me if "I'd like a serious relationship". I tell her I just finished one 6 months ago and I'm not sure now. We continue walking.

Second day comes, I DON'T call her! Reason? (probably the most retarded beta-thing I've ever done:) I was living with a chick which I really liked and she was leading me into thinking that we MIGHT be together in the future while she was actually just baiting me in so that she would have a trustworthy beta-bucks to split the rent with her and be her emotional cushion.

Fast forward 3 weeks! I meet up the redhead on the street; we pass by eachother as if we don't know eachother. After a few steps I decide to look back and so does she! We talk for a few minutes (after a first awkward stare) and I tell her that I'd like to watch a movie with her this weekend. She said she can't because she'd be out of town then. I tell her I'll Facebook her and then we'll see. She told me she was going to meet up with my co-worker for a ride with their bikes and told me I could come; I had to turn her down since I was tired and had no bike. I mentioned I have rollerblades and she said that I could come and she could pull me! I had to refuse again since I was really tired.

I add her on Facebook; she doesn't accept me even after a week. I decide to text her a "hey" -> no answer. 1 more week passes and I decide to call her -> no answer. The second day she accepts me on Facebook and tells me that "she's sorry for dodging me so much but it was easier than saying no to me; and also right now she's not interested in anything". I apologize for bugging her so much; she apologizes for not answering.

TL; DR: beta boy coming out of his shell tries TRP tactics -> it works! But he doesn't follow up because he still has the beta instinct in him.

What I learned? Lead in, have confidence, don't force things too much, kino is good and it's not impossible or a taboo, push-pull is good, DON'T lose frame (don't beta out; alpha in!), respect what you say and the girl you're trying to woo.

What were my mistakes guys? Except not calling her the next day and living with the other chick (which I don't live with anymore don't worry)?

Sorry for the long post and sorry if I broke a few rules here and there :S.

Edits: formatting