I think I succeeded in this venture but help me out. In a LTR been a year and 1 month. Girls "bestfriend" wants her to go to Montreal since they planned in before I got in the picture. Get told yesterday about it. I said let me think on it....this is when the "I love you baby" B.S. comes in. Fast forward to today I make up my mind and say she can't go. She's fine with it until her friend starts saying shit. You know females. My girl gets in her feels and says what if she does leave....I say: "If you do, you walk out of the relationship as well." She understands the implications because I'm going to school for the healthcare profession and have girls after me (abundance mentality you need it more in a LTR it's not even funny) so I believe my dread was applied correctly. Now she is saying I should trust her but any man who has been divorced here will tell you different. (Don't fall for it.) I said I made my mind and its final then went to the gym. Idc for beauty rates but she is ok and me denying her what she wants annoys her but I stayed firm and also have my gun on the trigger if she decides to go on a vacation. (It's Canada motherfuckers hoes here don't @ me) Did I do everything right?