[FR] "Ignore" game

[deleted] · 2014-02-27T17:25:09+00:00

If she's holding your hand, and you are going with it, at that point I'd start physically escalating

grandmazboy · 2014-02-27T17:48:08+00:00

You said she held your hand through a crowd and kept holding it after passing by them? She isolated you, which is kinda awesome and kinda bad at the same time. The way I see it is she set you up, and you missed the lay-up. She did half the work for you, all you had to do was act - which I think you would agree with.

Just think of it as a jungle. When does the lion pounce? Any hint or scent of food and you take it. Don't fight against your instincts.

Kimjungillestt · 2014-02-27T17:33:41+00:00

Same thing happened to me a couple weeks ago. Had a party and all these dudes were giving her a lot of attention while I did my own thing and didn't really acknowledge her. She came up to me and talked for a bit, I left to get something, and went somewhere else to talk to other people. She followed me and talked again. End of the night she gave me her number.

SillyAmerican · 2014-02-27T19:39:53+00:00

This is a fine art. And while some girls run the same track, they dont make it blatantly as obvious they like you as this one did. Often you will get a single subtle window of opportunity and if you dont take it, the girl is on to the next guy that is "ignoring" her. They're not stupid. When you ignore a girl they know you are doing it on purpose "because like, im hot, so why would you?" They want to know why, so if they give you the right queues, tell them exactly why you are ignoring them.

tangman · 2014-02-27T21:10:25+00:00

There you are, in a club, holding hands with a hottie, and all that's running through your head is some mathematical calculation about which "game" will "build" the most "attraction".

It's no wonder how PUAs turn into hollow shells of fake men.

How about you just drop the act and just enjoy the damn moment?

I froze, because I didn't know whether I should

The question is not what you should do, but what you want to do. What would give you the most satisfaction in that moment?

Is the music good? Dance. You feeling her? Get closer. Is she intriguing? Talk to her. Is the music loud? Lead her somewhere else.

There, you've isolated and escalated.

Hyooge · 2014-02-27T19:30:32+00:00

I've done this all too often. Being the one guy who doesn't seek approval from her which makes her interest in you become tunnel vision. But I think that because I'm such an aloof bad boy I continue to do this and whallah! she eventually loses interest.

I definitely let my ego get in the way because I feel that I'm so damn good she'll never move on from me, even though she's known me for 20 minutes.

Find an opening, change tack and go for it.

randomdude600 · 2014-02-27T19:35:53+00:00

You don't have to change your whole game, escalation is a physical strategy. You can escalate physically while continuing to snub her socially in conversation. By doing this SHE will have to switch gears and start communicating with you physically if she wants more of your attention.

Remember if she's attracted to you she sees you as a puzzle she wants to solve, if you suddenly change gears to a more predictable game style you risk loosing that mystery she's trying to crack. By the same token, confusing women can also be effective. You do not want to be boring and predictable.

Never forget the immortal words "Rejection is better than regret"

"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take" - Gretzky

Roosh says getting a kiss rejection is a good thing because you know you aren't wasting kisses. If you aren't getting rejected by some girls there's probably girls you could have smooched but didn't because you didn't have the stones to go for it.

mercuryg · 2014-02-27T18:45:08+00:00

In my experience, ignore game works up to a certain point where she'll give you no choice but to switch it up. Sooner or later she'll put you in a position where you just have to show what you're really made of.

GushyWetWet15 · 2014-02-28T02:04:22+00:00

spot on op although i gotta add there's a limit to how long you can act before she moves onto the next one. back in my beta days i used to always do this but never act upon the attraction and would just wait for her to make the move, never happend, they all end up moving onto the next guy that gives them attention. it's good theory but you have a time limit before she loses interest. so guys grab your balls and go for it

minuscipher · 2014-02-28T16:25:45+00:00

IMO you dropped the ball but learn from this. She was pretty much inviting you by being all touchy. Next time pay attention to the moment the signs get physical.

[deleted] · 2014-03-02T20:23:18+00:00

Is this a PUA community?

[deleted] · 2014-02-27T17:51:14+00:00

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Title	[FR] "Ignore" game
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Upvotes	22
Comments	20
Date	February 27, 2014 5:04 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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