Summary: # closed a girl. Much easier than I thought it would be.

 

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I am adding a few meta observations as I write this. During the interaction, everything was on autopilot. I wasn't consciously thinking about anything.

 

First approach since stumbling upon TRP roughly 6 months ago. We just finished an exam and had a 10-minute break before class started. So I am standing outside the lecture hall leaning on these standing desk type things just reading another FR on trp. I am wearing a black v neck with the sleeves rolled up a bit to show off my newly acquired guns. Slim-fit dark wash jeans and some brown boots [definitely noticed more IOI since they add a solid 1.5" to my height].

 

In comes this cutesy girl and takes the desk right next to mine and takes a small bag of tangerines out and just starts peeling them.

 

[Meta] Her coming in close proximity made me feel it was an invitation to open her. But my mind came up with the rationalisation that she wasn't hot enough. She was a solid 7 tbh. It was just an excuse. RSD Julien always says the best opener is to skip the opener and directly get into the interaction like you know her.

 

I open with a cheeky are you eating oranges?. It tends to really work with my game because then I am already in state - as playfully provocative and teasing is my personality naturally. There is no faking or manipulation everything is true and genuine. She says yeah and that she wanted a snack. I go for a small tease asking if she just carries a small bag of oranges on campus and just busts it out whenever. She says yeah and that she had classes all day - She then asks if I want one?

 

[Meta] Attraction -> Comfort -> Seduction. Time to build comfort.

 

I say yeah and even ask her to peel one for me lol. I take this as an opportunity to move closer to her on her desk. We talk about the exam, faculty, Halloween, and just general things to build more comfort.

 

It was time to go back into class. We slowly start walking back. I want to ask her number. But I was paralysed and started having flashes of every time a girl said I have a boyfriend when I asked for their number. Quickly snapped myself out of it by telling myself that I am a high-value man, not some league of legends playing loser.

 

Gave her my phone and asked her to put her # in. Told her that my friend is having a party on Saturday and if she doesn't have plans she should come and if she does then tell them to fuck off and come anyway.

 

We both walk in class. She says it was nice meeting you.

 

In Closing:

  • I really need to focus on my breathing so I don't sound super airy. I get nervous and lose my natural voice and accent

  • Approach anxiety hasn't been a big issue now that I don't see girls as attractive or unattractive anymore. Just a girl. Completely switch off any affect her hotness has.

  • Finished watching Julien's Ten Game - and made sure to not panic if the interaction had a small pause or silence in between. Just because the interaction died down for 5 seconds does not mean time to eject or do something over the top and shoot yourself in the foot.

  • Should have done something about my intentions and be a little more direct(?). Now i am in a grey area where I don't know if she knows my intentions.

  • Shoutout to /u/HumanSockPuppet for his comment yesterday